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That's not the own you think it is. XD"
Not really sure what you mean. Are you saying that her success hasn't been hindered by her transphobia? Because she and her fellow transphobes keep crying about her being canceled.

That's not the own you think it is. XD"
Not really sure what you mean. Are you saying that her success hasn't been hindered by her transph..."
Well she's not transphobic so calling her that is inappropriate.

That's not the own you think it is. XD"
Not really sure what you mean. Are you saying that her success hasn't been hindered by..."
Do you think she's not transphobic because that's what she says? Because a lot of trans people disagree, including me. She is actively advocating for policies that make the lives of British trans people harder. Yes, she claims that these policies are intended to keep cis women safe, but they are not supported by evidence.
She makes trans women out to be abusers and predators. She infantalizes trans men by making them out to be confused girls with interalized misogyny.
I loved HP growing up, so please to confuse me for a hater. I used to have a lot of respect for JKR, but I respect myself as trans man. It grieves me to see the path she has taken, allying herself with people who would have been the villains of her stories.
Think about it. Can't you imagine Umbridge forcing a young trans girl to cut "I am a boy" into her skin?


I have a feeling that is because you're more invested in protecting the reputation of your favorite childhood author than the wellbeing of trans people. Maybe if you were more curious about why people are calling her a TERF, you would have a different perspective.
I say it simply and bluntly because I (and a lot of trans people) are really tired of defending our humanity.

I have a feeling that is because you're more invested in pro..."
You still don't have to say anything... you could have just ignored this feed and let the rest of us have our fond memories.


Again, that's because you enjoy your comfort more than you care about trans people. Have a good day. :)

I have a feeling that is because you're more inv..."
Unfortunately, as a trans person, I don't have the same luxury as cis people to ignore one of the most successful authors of all time using her significant platform to make the lives of people like me worse. I can't look at the favorite series from my childhood anymore. I'm not saying you can't enjoy the books anymore, but you are showing your true colors when you tell trans people to stop ruining your comfort. Our rights are being taken away. But I guess "fond memories" are more important.

I have a feeling that is because y..."
Again, I reiterate, you didn't have to say anything.... you don't have to follow her anymore. So you don't have to troll the feed. That's all I'm saying. Protest her all you want, but you could CHOOSE to not comment something.

I have a feeling that ..."
I'll protest her all I want here, thank you very much. :)


I have a feeling that is because y..."
i seriously dislike people such as you , and I don't see why you hate the work over a misjudged post of hers , for which you condemn her so , I know what she said must be really hurtful to some , I'm not saying "those who menstruate " is not a very offensive phrase because there are women who do not have menstruation in thin world as well , but what she wanted to say was meant to say she didn't like the phrase cause she thought it an unpleasant way of referring to a woman , she meant no harm as general public does not know like people of medical line , as i am , that there are women who do not menstruate and there are different hormonal values than a menstruating one , she meant no offence , and I believe it as a fact cause many before her have made such remarks , i know she's a public figure and must have known better , but she has already apologised so why not let bygones be bygones , and just accept her apology? a normal human with even a tinge of humanity would understand and let her be . and this reply or comment is meant for no hate for lgbtq community as I am myself a lesbian

I have a feeling that ..."
I think you're missing a lot of context. Her transphobia goes far far far beyond one tweet rudely expressing her discomfort with the phrase "people who menstruate." As I said previously, she is actively advocating for legislation that is making the lives of trans people worse.
Also, to my knowledge she has never apologized for her transphobia, only doubled, and tripled down, to the point of siding with "feminists" who are a little too chummy with the far right.
There are no "bygones," because she hasn't stopped her harmful actions against the trans community.
For a very informative video about JKR's new friends of the last several years, search "JK Rowling's New Friends" by Shaun on YouTube.


It's like y'all lose the ability to read when you encounter something that makes you uncomfortable. It's really frustrating and disheartening.


I see that you didn't learn how to be kind and compassionate from these oh-so-popular books. :)

>gets called out for it
>pulls the "be kind" card
These millenial robots need an upgrade asap, this isn't even fun.

>gets called out for it
>pulls the "be kind" card
These millenial robots need an upgrade asap, this isn't even fun."
Where did I insult anybody? Was it when I pointed out that you refused to read any of the context for why I'm criticizing the author you're defending?


I confirmed your first comment how? By not backing down on criticizing this incredibly rich and powerful transphobe? 1 billion listening hours is disheartening because it goes to show how many people don't care at all about how JKR's actions impact trans people, whose rights she continues to attack.
Do you not care about trans people? You can just say that if that's the case.


The reason I'm here and not on twitter is because of the exact thing you described. I'm not content to allow this to be a bubble of comfort for people who are willing to support a transphobe who is doing immeasurable harm to trans people. The people who agree with her on Twitter reinforce each other's beliefs, and as has been made abundantly clear here, the people who don't care about the suffering and abuse of trans people get to carry on their merry way. They get to pretend this isn't happening.
Every single royalty check she receives reinforces her belief that her fans are on her side. Every dollar spent on her intellectual property tells her "yes, people think I'm doing the right thing by framing trans women as predators and rapists." You say that I am playing the victim, but she has framed every critique of her as a vicious attack on her, one of the most powerful people in the public eye.
I find it really strange that you keep telling me to go back to Twitter. I don't really spend much time on Twitter, but when I do, I'm faced with onslaughts on transphobia, more and more bad news about how people like me are being viewed and treated. You're making a lot of assumptions about the kind of "bubble" I live in, because it certainly isn't protecting me from "facts that hurt my feelings," Ben Shapeebo.
She and the fans that want to ignore her abuse get to have little bubbles like this, where they don't have be confronted with the real world harm she is causing.
You say that Twitter doesn't represent the real world, and you're right, but it also doesn't exist in a vacuum. Her action and words have inspired and emboldened people like Matt Walsh (a literal self-professed theocratic fascist, and please don't start talking to be about satire. I know that he wants you to think it's a joke, but if you listen to how he talks for five minutes, it's very clear it's not a joke.). If you want to ignore the cries of trans people, go ahead. Just hope that you're higher on the list of people that fascists (temporarily) approve of.

As for the people you mentioned, there are rules on twitter and youtube on what people are not allowed to say such as sending death and rape threats to anyone with opposite views which i've seen a lot from users with "be kind" on their bio, detrans included, or even worse, celebrating someone's death because they stood with J.K. Rowling. However, there aren't rules on what people must think and say, you don't seem to understand what fascism is, this isn't nazy germany anymore. That's why those people are not banned from their online platforms. Besides I don't even watch their videos, I can't stand ben shapiro's bugs bunny voice and I'm not even subscribed to them as I don't want anything related to politics on my youtube feed, i prefer to ignore anything related to this woke insanity, only to come to goodreads and find someone who brought it here when no one asked for it.

Looking forward to your new endeavors!

I thought you just said that I live in a bubble that protects me from these supposed "facts" (none of which you've been specific about) that will trigger me. Now I'm actively seeking them?
I also think I'm pretty interesting, but you know nothing about me except that I'm trans and I am critical of JKR. You're doing so much projection. You think I'm making this about me, but I'm intentionally not. It's not at all about me.
You say you come to the library and goodreads for knowledge, but in the next paragraph you say you want to avoid "politics." This seems like a contradiction. Thoughts?

No, you aren't. You are trans and your whole personality is based on that, no one even asked what you were but you made sure this was all about you. You are just missing a rape/ murder threat to J.K. Rowling, other than that you checked all boxes.
By politics I meant keeping up with the daily snowflake trends from the western world pushed by the mainstream media that won't make me any smarter, in which I include your "still a terf" comment. It's a comment that fits in the average youtube and twitter comment sections, it gets you a lot of internet points, but not on here.

So, basically you're confirming what I've been saying this whole time. You think that trans people are delusional and abnormal, that we should just leave all the "normal" people alone, even if it makes our lives worse.
I'm not looking for "points." I don't need your approval. It doesn't hurt me that you think my entire existence is about being trans, because I know you that you're never going to respect my existence. You're not hurting my sense of self. I love myself regardless of what you think. You're also not going to push me out of any particular space, just because you don't think I belong here. I'm just sad that you can't seem to extend any kind of compassion or curiosity to me. I'm sad because I know that you're not alone in that.
I also don't think I ever insulted JKR. If you think calling her a TERF is an insult, I don't know what to tell you. I feel like you've actually been far more insulting to me in this conversation. But I have a feeling that you'll deny that anything you've said is insulting. You'll just claim that I'm playing the victim and I'm too easily triggered. Isn't it fun that we're both falling into our designated camps?
It's not just that JKR has an "opposite worldview" from me. I don't even think that's true, actually. I've consistently pointed out that her actions are causing harm to my community. She is actively working to make it harder for trans people to exist, to access medical care, to be in public spaces, to engage in public discourse.
She insists of framing it as "oh I'm just saying that biological sex is real." By framing the narrative that way, she makes it seem like trans people are delusional, that we don't understand reality, and that we're trying to force some double think on everybody else. Besides, trans people don't deny that sex is real. If we denied that sex was a factor, we wouldn't pursue medical transition.
But it's not even an accurate framing of the situation. She constantly talks about trans women as if they are predators, when they are actually far more likely to be the victims of physical and sexual abuse than cis women. She's constantly bashing and abusing us, but then has the gall to act like she is the victim. Yes, I know that she has received death and rape threats, and I don't endorse that at all. However, I wouldn't be surprised if she received those before this whole controversy. Do you remember when the Christians all hated her for writing demonic books? You don't see her bashing Christians do you? Of course not. It's not acceptable, but it's also a part of being a public figure. She's one of the most visible people in the world. Even people with less fame than her get abuse online. It isn't acceptable for her to paint the entire trans community with a broad brush because of the behavior of a few. She refuses to listen to people who do their best to reason with her, and routinely blocks people who point out that some of her new friends are actively homophobic and white supremacist.

I won't debunk each one of your claims with actual evidence as they have nothing to do with J.K Rowling's success, and I won't agree with them either because it's not my purpose to affirm your feelings, I'll tell you one thing though: trans rights =/= fuck everyone's rights. J.K. Rowling is defending girls and women's rights. this conversation hasn't been any fruitful from the beginning and you preached so much in your last comment you even included christians in your "gotcha" attempt to make a very dumb point, and the race card was hilarious, but in the end you never said anything about detrans who get death threats from trans (people who they once followed) and who regret taking drugs in their youth which caused irreversible changes when they were told once they were reversible and didn't solve the issues they had. If J.K. Rowling's concerns didn't have a little bit of truth in them, i wouldn't find stories like the travistock scandal.

I hope you had a good Christmas Daniel!
I can see that you're far too intrenched in your transphobic echo chamber to listen to anything I'm going to say, so for the sake of my own sanity, I'm going to wish you the best and let this go. I hoped we could see some common ground, but it seems like we're both talking past each other.


This'll actually be my last reply. I knew before I even looked at this comment what you would say. I could tell you all about how small the actual detrans rate is, and how a good portion of those who detransition do so because of external pressures, rather than their own internal regrets. I could point out that some people regretting their transition shouldn't mean that it should be banned or made more difficult. We don't do that with nose jobs or similar procedures.
I'm ending this conversation not because you won. You didn't prove to me or anybody that JKR is actually defending anybody, nor that she isn't transphobic or pushing transphobic policies or ideology. I'm ending this conversation because it's not my job to educate you.
However, I would like for you to do some research on what constitutes "harassment," because what I've been do is absolutely not harassment lmao. You can strawman me all you want. It would be way easier for you if I was just the boogeyman trans person who only hurls death threats and then cries and runs away to my safe space when I can't handle "the facts."
The reality is that I am just tired of arguing when a brick wall who is only ever going to run back to their own comfortable assumptions, despite any evidence to the contrary. I spent the holidays with people who love and care about me, who want me to be happy and healthy. It became clear to me that this is a waste of my time, and that you don't deserve my energy and time anymore. I'm disappointed because I thought you might eventually listen, but it's clear that you won't.
I hope you have a good life and eventually open you're mind, but it's out of my hands. Best of luck to you! :)
