You CAN’T do it Alone

You need people. You need to be able to depend on people. You need to feel safe around people.

We are biologically wired to be co-dependent. We are tribal beings.

Today you are told that you don’t need anyone.

That all of your needs can be met by yourself.

You CAN’T do it Alone.

“Well before brain imaging technology was developed, John Bowlby understood that our need for someone to share our lives with is part of our genetic makeup and has nothing to do with how much we love ourselves or how fulfiled we feel on our own. He discovered that once we choose someone special, powerful and often uncontrolable forces come into play. New patterns of behavior kick in regardless of how independent we are and despite our conscious wills.”

Excerpt From
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love
Amir Levine

Healthy co-dependency is inevitable.

We spend time with the wrong people, that makes us think that we don’t need anyone in life and that we are done with “humans”.

You just need to surround yourself with people that bring out good in you. Spend time with people that motivate you, help your soul heal and makes your life better.

Your life is as good as the people in it.

Choose wisely.

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