On Being and Doing

Can a person do a thing yet not be a thing? This question has been plaguing me since last week. I read something about a man that was unfulfilled in his intimate life. I related very much to what I read and it moved me deeply. It made me want to hunt him down and fulfill every sexual fantasy he had. It made me want to tie him down and perpetrate all types of profane acts upon him.

Usually, when I think about these types of things, I'm the one tied down. I'm the one submitting. I don't have a n...