Stop the Blaming
The month is almost over and there are still some people who haven’t done anything with this year, even though they have been praying for a change. It is so unfortunate that so many people are not enjoying an incredible life because they’ve chosen to take the route of blaming everyone and everything for where they are in life.
No one wins at the blame game!
You are responsible for your life, and when you take responsibility for all your past mistakes, without blame, you change your life. As a life management coach, it is my job to help people learn to take responsibility for their lives on their journey to creating an incredible life.
There are too many people out there that are simply deciding that they’re going to blame the government and its policies. They may blame their parents and their upbringing, they may blame their spouse and their attitude, they may blame their boss and their arrogance.
They blame everyone and everything for the situations they are in and the state of life they are in except for the one person they should look at…themselves.
When you cast blame, you are surrendering your power, abilities, and life into the power of something or someone else. You are saying that they have control over you and that you are powerless.
When you say someone “makes you angry”, you are saying that that person has complete control over you and you are powerless to do anything about it.
When you blame your boss for your unhappiness at work, you are submitting control of your happiness to your boss and saying you are powerless to do anything about it.
LET’S GET RID OF THE OLD STORIES THAT ARE HOLDING US BACK. Write down all of the people you are blaming.
Some examples:
- My family doesn’t support anything I do.
- I’m waiting for my partner to support me.
- I don’t have enough money.
- I’m a woman. That’s why they won’t give me a chance.
- I’m not smart enough.
- I’m waiting until I have another certification.
- I am the victim of growing up living paycheck to paycheck.
- I’m black. That’s why they won’t promote me.
It is time to stop looking around for all the reasons why you have NOT realized your dream life. You’ve got to rise above negativity, doubt, and rationalizations and become a problem solver.
NEVER BLAME ANYONE IN LIFE.
We've become a society where we blame everyone for our feelings, pain, and unhappiness. No one is responsible and has control over our emotions. If you are unhappy, simply look in the mirror.
Please remember, You aren't a failure until you start to blame!!
Effective Living Life Management Agency's mission is to equip the whole person by being a life management agency that helps people to structure their lives for effective living. Consider joining our life management group coaching. I'm teaching principles to help you manage your life, in five key areas - faith, family, finances, fitness, and fun. Learn more about our program HERE.
No one wins at the blame game!
You are responsible for your life, and when you take responsibility for all your past mistakes, without blame, you change your life. As a life management coach, it is my job to help people learn to take responsibility for their lives on their journey to creating an incredible life.
There are too many people out there that are simply deciding that they’re going to blame the government and its policies. They may blame their parents and their upbringing, they may blame their spouse and their attitude, they may blame their boss and their arrogance.
They blame everyone and everything for the situations they are in and the state of life they are in except for the one person they should look at…themselves.
When you cast blame, you are surrendering your power, abilities, and life into the power of something or someone else. You are saying that they have control over you and that you are powerless.
When you say someone “makes you angry”, you are saying that that person has complete control over you and you are powerless to do anything about it.
When you blame your boss for your unhappiness at work, you are submitting control of your happiness to your boss and saying you are powerless to do anything about it.
LET’S GET RID OF THE OLD STORIES THAT ARE HOLDING US BACK. Write down all of the people you are blaming.
Some examples:
- My family doesn’t support anything I do.
- I’m waiting for my partner to support me.
- I don’t have enough money.
- I’m a woman. That’s why they won’t give me a chance.
- I’m not smart enough.
- I’m waiting until I have another certification.
- I am the victim of growing up living paycheck to paycheck.
- I’m black. That’s why they won’t promote me.
It is time to stop looking around for all the reasons why you have NOT realized your dream life. You’ve got to rise above negativity, doubt, and rationalizations and become a problem solver.
NEVER BLAME ANYONE IN LIFE.
We've become a society where we blame everyone for our feelings, pain, and unhappiness. No one is responsible and has control over our emotions. If you are unhappy, simply look in the mirror.
Please remember, You aren't a failure until you start to blame!!
Effective Living Life Management Agency's mission is to equip the whole person by being a life management agency that helps people to structure their lives for effective living. Consider joining our life management group coaching. I'm teaching principles to help you manage your life, in five key areas - faith, family, finances, fitness, and fun. Learn more about our program HERE.
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