No Blaming. No Excuses. No Complaining.
Your life is created by the decisions you make on a daily basis. This week, I want us to take our time and identify where we have been blaming others, making excuses and complaining why we’re not successful. This will be our focus the entire month of March.
You truly can take control of your life if you simply accept this fact: Event + Response = Outcome. It’s as simple as that!
Growing up, I remember seeing people complaining and blaming others for everything. “It’s their fault I can’t go here or there….it’s their fault I don’t know how to do this or that…my family wants me to do this but, I don’t like it…” Why complain, when you have the ability to choose?Living life effectively involves personal responsibility. You are responsible for you. You are responsible for your choices. You are responsible for your responses. Personal responsibility is a principle I teach in my book, Effective Living.
I want you to – I need you to – accept that the outcome of anything that happens in your life is equal to the event itself and your response to it.
As your life management coach, I want you to understand you may not be able to change the events in your life, but you can change your response.
It’s not the event that controls you. It’s your response to the event. You make the choice for how you respond to the event.
From this day forward make a commitment to CHOOSE TO LEARN AND GROW!
What’s great about this truth is, if you don’t like where you are at, all you need to do is change your response! If you don’t like your circumstances, change your response! It’s all your choice.
You can’t always change the events, or what happens to you. But you can always choose how you react to those events. You can take personal responsibility for yourself.“So, one must ask themselves, “Do I like the outcome I am currently getting?” Whatever your answer to that question is, you have two basic choices to make. You can either take responsibility or play the blame game. You can choose to blame all the outside forces like the economy, weather, lack of money, education, racism, gender bias, ageism, your wife, your husband, your boss, the lack of support, the church, the Pastor and so on. If you are a Christian, you’ve probably even blamed God, or the devil. No doubt all of these factors do exits, but if any one of them were the only deciding factor, nobody would ever succeed.” (Effective Living, page 34)
Make it a rule from now on:
No Blaming.
No Excuses.
No Complaining.
Say to yourself: “I take 100% responsibility for my life. Where I am at now is because of my choices. Where I will be in the future is because of my choices as well.”
Ultimately it’s up to you to fix you!
I encourage you to join our Effective Living Life Management Group Coaching. In our group coaching, I teach you how manage your life. No blaming. No excuses. No complaining. Monday to Friday within a private Facebook group, there is a community who are all growing and living life effectively. Learn more HERE. I want to coach you!
You truly can take control of your life if you simply accept this fact: Event + Response = Outcome. It’s as simple as that!
Growing up, I remember seeing people complaining and blaming others for everything. “It’s their fault I can’t go here or there….it’s their fault I don’t know how to do this or that…my family wants me to do this but, I don’t like it…” Why complain, when you have the ability to choose?Living life effectively involves personal responsibility. You are responsible for you. You are responsible for your choices. You are responsible for your responses. Personal responsibility is a principle I teach in my book, Effective Living.
I want you to – I need you to – accept that the outcome of anything that happens in your life is equal to the event itself and your response to it.
As your life management coach, I want you to understand you may not be able to change the events in your life, but you can change your response.
It’s not the event that controls you. It’s your response to the event. You make the choice for how you respond to the event.
From this day forward make a commitment to CHOOSE TO LEARN AND GROW!
What’s great about this truth is, if you don’t like where you are at, all you need to do is change your response! If you don’t like your circumstances, change your response! It’s all your choice.
You can’t always change the events, or what happens to you. But you can always choose how you react to those events. You can take personal responsibility for yourself.“So, one must ask themselves, “Do I like the outcome I am currently getting?” Whatever your answer to that question is, you have two basic choices to make. You can either take responsibility or play the blame game. You can choose to blame all the outside forces like the economy, weather, lack of money, education, racism, gender bias, ageism, your wife, your husband, your boss, the lack of support, the church, the Pastor and so on. If you are a Christian, you’ve probably even blamed God, or the devil. No doubt all of these factors do exits, but if any one of them were the only deciding factor, nobody would ever succeed.” (Effective Living, page 34)
Make it a rule from now on:
No Blaming.
No Excuses.
No Complaining.
Say to yourself: “I take 100% responsibility for my life. Where I am at now is because of my choices. Where I will be in the future is because of my choices as well.”
Ultimately it’s up to you to fix you!
I encourage you to join our Effective Living Life Management Group Coaching. In our group coaching, I teach you how manage your life. No blaming. No excuses. No complaining. Monday to Friday within a private Facebook group, there is a community who are all growing and living life effectively. Learn more HERE. I want to coach you!
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