PODCAST: On Birth Control and Lust Control, featuring Patrick Weaver
Plus we talk with Patrick Weaver about the recent #DearBrian dust-up, where that pastor from Utah told women to cover up and not show skin on Instagram, like pictures with their newborn babies.
Great discussion with Patrick–and I hope the beginning with Keith was educational too!
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Timeline of the Podcast
0:10 Announcements
3:00 Let’s talk Birth Control (disclaimers)
5:35 Natural Family Planning
11:15 The Pill
14:50 IUDs
18:00 Barriers
24:30 Surgical
26:45 Combining
29:00 Withdrawal
32:15 Interview with Patrick Weaver
56:00 Encouragement
We had so many people saying that last week’s podcast on the sexual response cycle was helpful that we decided to do another educational segment about different contraception options!
We handled this like we did in our new books The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex. We give the pros and cons of each method, but we don’t tell you what to do, because it’s ultimately up to you. Some people have moral objections to anything that interferes with fertility, and some have health objections to anything that interferes with her hormones. So let’s look at all the options–because there’s nothing that’s 100% easy and perfect and always works. There are always trade-offs!
I asked in my Instagram stories this week about favourite birth control methods, and I shared some of your responses in the podcast, but I’ll share more on Facebook later today too!
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Pre-Order Now Email Us Your Receipt Patrick Weaver Joins Us to Talk about Lust–and How Men Can Be Involved in ChangeI’ve really enjoyed getting to know Patrick Weaver on Facebook over the last few months, and he’s been a great voice standing up against abuse and asking men to step up to the plate.
If you don’t follow him on Facebook, you should, because he’s very no-nonsense.
We opened our conversation talking about the #DearBrian tweet from last week, which I “fixed” on Instagram:
Our conversation then turned to how we can get more men speaking up for healthy relationships. We have so many great guys and great commenters on this site, and we have so many great guys in our Patreon as well, but how do we engage with men more? Patrick had some good thoughts.
Things Mentioned in This Podcast:Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and help us get our research into peer reviewed journals. Plus you can join our rocking Facebook group and get unfiltered podcasts!Pre-Order The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex or The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex and you can get our pre-order bonuses: awesome Evangelical Sex Report Card and an invitation to join our launch team!Our original birth control series plus the book Taking Charge of Your FertilityPatrick Weaver’s Facebook Page and his Instagram
Sheila Wray Gregoire Founder of To Love, Honor and Vacuum
Sheila is determined to help Christians find BIBLICAL, HEALTHY, EVIDENCE-BASED help for their marriage. And in doing so, she's turning the evangelical world on its head, challenging many of the toxic teachings, especially in her newest book The Great Sex Rescue. She’s an award-winning author of 8 books and a sought-after speaker. With her humorous, no-nonsense approach, Sheila works with her husband Keith and daughter Rebecca to create podcasts and courses to help couples find true intimacy. Plus she knits. All the time. ENTJ, straight 8 FacebookTwitter Related Posts PODCAST: The ABCs of Arousal and the Sexual Response CycleFeb 10, 2022 | 52 Comments
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