
Friday 10th of January 2020
There’s a beautiful impermanence to all things. Do you see it? It’s the nature of reality, the grand design woven into this tapestry. People aren’t meant to stay in our lives, abandonment issues aside.
There’s a duality that takes place within the relationships in our lives, within the people that come in and out of our lives. We become both teacher and student. As in, they have something to teach us and we have something to teach them, we have something to learn and they have something to learn.
When this exchange is complete, naturally, it’s time to move on, to repeat the pattern with another.
This exchange can take lifetimes, or a few weeks, you can grow with a person, become students together, or teachers together, or it can go back and forth, maybe forever, who knows.
My point is, my point was, moving away from someone isn’t necessarily abandonment, perhaps it’s just progress. Can all the people I’ve abandoned see it that way?
I’m done holding on to my abandonment wounds. Now let’s hope saying it makes it true.
Published on February 01, 2022 08:09