Hypocrites

We are hypocrites, believe it or not. We care about our problems yet make fun of others. Mental health was one of the topics that sailed up during the pandemic. Before the pandemic, we allowed people to walk over us. Employees play the mental health card if questioned for work. Do you think that’s appropriate? I believe it is inappropriate to use your privileges. Everyone assumes that people with strong personalities cannot have mental breakdowns. I started my day having the roughest conversation with one of my colleagues. People have new ways to escape scenarios. I want to term the immature behavior of my colleague as a result of the male ego. The clash was the second one in a month. I don’t appreciate it when people assume that I am a strong-headed person. I can break down too. I have never made too many friends in the corporate world. The reason is someone would play you or play against you. It’s a world you cannot trust. People keep a count of favors they do. I have been made long-term friends through my corporate connection. I am glad none of us were waiting for the other one’s downfall. The unpleasant conversation reminded me of Harvey’s quote: “Caring is for the weak. You care, and they’ll walk all over you.”
As my mental health took a toll today, I took a leave. My manager was quite accomodating and pushed me to avail myself of a break. I binged watched one of my favorite shows on Netflix. I also related to Monica from the TV show – FRIENDS. She could overcome a sad situation after a deep cleaning of the house. I felt like walking in Monica’s shoes today. “The grass always seems greener on the other side.” We should stop being hypocrites, and respect everyone’s mental well-being.