6 Quirks of Every Husband and How to Deal with It

Here's some help for married women who scratch their heads in disbelief at the husband's quirks. Tips for couples to enrich their relationship. Read on and share with others.

#1 No random plans for husbands
If you suddenly plan a surprise dinner at your favourite garden restaurant, he’s most likely to throw up. Men don’t like you springing surprises on them, that’s their domain. He’s a man with a plan. So if you’re thinking of dramatic outstation trips the moment he returns from office on Friday evening, be prepared to face disappointments. At the most, a random plan that could succeed may be dropping you at your mom’s place for the weekend.

#2 Cleaning up home during the weekend
Any wife who succeeds in getting the man to move out of the couch and do some cleaning during the weekend, deserves an entry in the Limca Book of Records and a seat in Koffee with Karan.

#3 Making him understand your silence
He can see through the corner of his eyes and find out that you’re upset, but will not ask you why. That’s because your answer will upset him. Although he’s an Rocket Scientist or Artificial Intelligence expert, he can’t figure out why you’re silent. Better to explain that like ABC to a kindergarten kid.

#4 Seems to listen but he’s not actually
You keep telling him something as he watches TV and at the end of the evening, he hasn’t done what you wanted him to do, although all the time he kept saying “Ok Baba”. Husbands can hear, they can’t listen. “Don’t listen to her after marriage, she’ll try to change you” has been drilled into him for years.

#5 His silence can be deafening
This is every wife’s common complaint. When you want him to open his mouth and answer you, he’ll not do it even if you order his favourite gulab jamun on Swiggy.

#6 Forgets where he kept his glasses
This is a classic. He’ll keep his glasses, wallet or watch somewhere and will keep insisting he left it on the fridge. He’ll walk around everywhere and ask anyone in sight if they saw it. History says that finally, it’s the wife who’ll locate it for him right in his laptop bag.

Rajasekar KS, Author of How to Read Your Husband Like a Book.
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Published on October 29, 2021 21:45 Tags: couple-goals, couple-relationship, couple-therapy, married-life, understanding-husbands
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