Disagree Without Being Disagreeable
All too often, during a debate, discussion, or even a casual conversation, there are some who seem unable or unwilling to disagree with someone else's belief or opinion without insulting, attacking, or mocking the other person .
At 74 years of age, I have learned that I am not always right and that others are not always wrong. One may participate in a spirited debate without having to insult or ridicule those with opposing opinions. Some debates end with both sides having to agree to disagree and to do so civily and maturely.
My father used to say, "The first one to lose their temper loses the argument". That statment may not be profound or even always true, but it has served as a guide for me personally throughout my life.
At 74 years of age, I have learned that I am not always right and that others are not always wrong. One may participate in a spirited debate without having to insult or ridicule those with opposing opinions. Some debates end with both sides having to agree to disagree and to do so civily and maturely.
My father used to say, "The first one to lose their temper loses the argument". That statment may not be profound or even always true, but it has served as a guide for me personally throughout my life.
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Sep 14, 2021 11:43AM
Wise words. Needs to be posted on a billboard for all the politicians to see.
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Christine wrote: "Wise words. Needs to be posted on a billboard for all the politicians to see."Christine,
I totally agree. Political discourse and behavior have deteriorated dramatically, especially during this past decade.
Thank you for remaining a long-time follower of the blog. Your comments and opinions are always informative and enlightening.
Jim Vuksic
