the rules of seduction

...What writers and seducers have in common is a mind that is empathetic enough to get under the skin of another human being…and an eye cold enough to assess their progress, or if it's time to revise the course.

They understand human nature.

And since that nature comes to us in male and female packages of experience, any real understanding needs to enfold the opposite sex as well as your own. Or else the only people you'll know how to seduce will be people like you.

And maybe not even them.

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