Soulmate? Let’s talk about Ownmate!
My first book- “The Secret Sauce Is YOU!: Being Your Ownmate” was launched on 21.01.2021 by Ashish Vidyarthi- National Award Winning Actor & Motivational speaker. It was launched on the prestigious Crosswords platform. It was magical and one-of-a-kind. Since then, my life has changed for great (not good) as I now use the #itsawriterworld as I forayed formally into the literary world. Though, I now know that I was a born writer.
The reason is my bold take on inner work that negates any form of external stimulation, seeking external validation or a nudge that only leads to a momentary high and brings the person back to a bland ennui. I’ve always called a spade a spade. It comes innately to me. I can’t sugar-coat. I don’t mince my words and I only say what I mean. Else, I mind my own business and keep my mouth shut. I like it that way.
With “The Secret Sauce Is YOU!”, I coined the term “Ownmate” in a world obsessed with the word soulmate. The word ownmate does not exist in the Oxford dictionary as yet. I introduced the term “Owmate” through the subtitle of my book. I’m not averse to the idea of a soulmate. In fact, love flows in the very veins of my book. In fact, I’ve dedicated an entire chapter on love called- “Love, Sex & Ruthless Compassion” in my book. I am saying that before you “recognize not find” your soulmate, there is a step before that. And that step begins with turning inwards.
As one traverses this adventurous journey within, being present, aware, and accepting oneself with all that’s good, bad & ugly are the cardinal baby steps. Most of all, date your demons, make a difference in your life and others through your strengths, work on your flaws, become your best version in a world of constant App updates & versions, “rise not fall” in love with yourself, and become your ownmate.
This will make you a gift to the world, for you will become this walking-talking fountain of love creating this ripple effect of the contagious effervescence of light, hope & happiness.
Apart from coining the term, “Ownmate”, I also devised a theory called the “Opposites theory” and concepts like “Emotionally challenged to Emotionally Channeled” and “Wisdom Quotient (WQ)” with my book. Thankfully, the book has been gaining a lot of momentum and has been touted as the Modern-Day Bhagwad Gita.
So, be your ownmate! For there’s no one like or will ever be. Love!
The reason is my bold take on inner work that negates any form of external stimulation, seeking external validation or a nudge that only leads to a momentary high and brings the person back to a bland ennui. I’ve always called a spade a spade. It comes innately to me. I can’t sugar-coat. I don’t mince my words and I only say what I mean. Else, I mind my own business and keep my mouth shut. I like it that way.
With “The Secret Sauce Is YOU!”, I coined the term “Ownmate” in a world obsessed with the word soulmate. The word ownmate does not exist in the Oxford dictionary as yet. I introduced the term “Owmate” through the subtitle of my book. I’m not averse to the idea of a soulmate. In fact, love flows in the very veins of my book. In fact, I’ve dedicated an entire chapter on love called- “Love, Sex & Ruthless Compassion” in my book. I am saying that before you “recognize not find” your soulmate, there is a step before that. And that step begins with turning inwards.
As one traverses this adventurous journey within, being present, aware, and accepting oneself with all that’s good, bad & ugly are the cardinal baby steps. Most of all, date your demons, make a difference in your life and others through your strengths, work on your flaws, become your best version in a world of constant App updates & versions, “rise not fall” in love with yourself, and become your ownmate.
This will make you a gift to the world, for you will become this walking-talking fountain of love creating this ripple effect of the contagious effervescence of light, hope & happiness.
Apart from coining the term, “Ownmate”, I also devised a theory called the “Opposites theory” and concepts like “Emotionally challenged to Emotionally Channeled” and “Wisdom Quotient (WQ)” with my book. Thankfully, the book has been gaining a lot of momentum and has been touted as the Modern-Day Bhagwad Gita.
So, be your ownmate! For there’s no one like or will ever be. Love!
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