The Relationship in Your Head

In a recent blog post, I talked about the differences between owning versus disowning responsibility for yourself in your relationship with your partner. I shared a story in which I made myself a victim of Judy until I stopped to think about it and was able to alter my reaction. I went from feeling like a victim to being accountable for what was happening.

A Relationship is not a “Thing”

Now I want to introduce another way of understanding your relationship. We too often talk about a relationsh...