Dear Diary: Observations from the Book Store and on the Loss of Whitney

For the first time in a very long time, I stepped foot into my local Barnes & Noble and found it to be a very different place than it was the last time I was there. In November of 2010 I made the leap to e-reading and have never looked back. This has fundamentally changed my relationship with my local bookstore. To be honest, e-reading has ended that relationship. I no longer have a reason to be somewhere I used to spend a tremendous amount of time. The loss of that relationship saddens me. However, as one who has tried to embrace new technology, I have to admit that I adore e-reading. I adore the easy access to books, the ability to have what I want when I want it (that applies to all things--not just books, LOL) and I love being able to read in the dark of night without bothering my husband--too much anyway.

I noticed that the romance section, still stashed way in the back of the store, has shrunk dramatically to two sides of a small aisle. It seems only the biggest names in the genre are featured there, with few exceptions. The new release paperback display that used to be in the front of the store is now stashed way  in the back. My kids asked why we had to walk past toys and other gadgets to get to the books. I told them because so many people aren't reading print books anymore. They were insulted on my behalf that my print books weren't featured in my home book store. I told them not to be because my readers are finding me in the e-bookstore where my books will never go out of print. Despite the move to e-reading and the fact that they have e-readers, both my kids bought print books yesterday. My older one, who is 16, told me she's not ready to completely abandon print books. I think I might be, however. I'm reading print books for a published author contest right now, and I find them to be hard on my eyes now that I've become accustomed to e-reading.

Where do you stand on the print vs. ebook debate? Have you made the leap? If so, do you have trouble going back to paperbacks when need be?

In other news, thank you to Carrie at Seductive Musings for listing Everyone Loves a Hero as one of her favorite books of 2011. In her note to me, she said, "I thought it was such a wonderful story and it was one of my absolute favorite reads from 2011."

Today, I'm watching Whitney's funeral on TV. As one who came of age in the late 80s/early 90s, hers was the voice of my generation. I remember singing her songs into my hairbrush with my dorm-mates in college. We loved her so much, and we were quite convinced our singing was every bit as good as hers. Of course no one's singing was ever quite like Whitney's. My daughter made a comment questioning just how big a star Whitney really was. We told her she couldn't begin to conceive of what a huge star Whitney was in her day. While the last years of her life were filled with struggles, I hope she'll be remembered for her amazing, singular talent and her generosity to a generation of female singers who owe so much of their success to the path she paved.
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Published on February 18, 2012 09:38
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message 1: by Marcella (new)

Marcella This is my take I Love e-books because they never go out of print so when I find an author I love I then can get all their books....the idea that you need to browse to find an author has taken a huge turn for me as that is how I found books to read was by reading the back cover I now belong to a couple of goodreads groups and they have reading challenges every month sort of like a virtual Book group only I can fit it in when I have the time which as we all know for most people is precious.....so that pushes me to read things in the past I would have ignored....and the thing I most love about e-books is I never run out of room to store my good friends and my favorites...I unfortunately have run out of space for more print books


message 2: by Marie (new)

Marie Marcella,
That's a great point--you can store 3000 books on a Kindle. Saves a lot of storage space and a lot of trees! :-)


message 3: by Danielle (last edited Feb 18, 2012 05:05PM) (new)

Danielle I also have not been spending so much time in book stores. I use to spend hours in BN when I went out. Now I only venture into bookstores when there are big sales or coupons that would make it worth the pain of reading a pb. The Borders in my town was the only book store within 30 miles and when it went out of business I took advantage of the super cheap books just before it shut its doors. There was still a huge amount of romance books and it made me really sad. BAM moved in to its location and it has TONS of romance books. Two entire walls are romance. I love it... but I still only buy ebooks unless paperbacks are really discounted. I just love looking at them :)


message 4: by Marie (new)

Marie Danielle,
Glad you have a BAM near you. I know they are big supporters of romance as was Borders.


message 5: by [deleted user] (last edited Feb 19, 2012 01:35PM) (new)

We live well over an hour away from the nearest book store (Barnes & Noble) and I haven't stepped foot in one for probably 2 years. My 13 year old daughter still prefers to read print books, but also enjoys re-reading her favorites on her iPod. Once I started reading eBooks a little over 3 years ago that was all she wrote...I am hooked! In the case of novels, that is. I still prefer print books for reference, history, etc. My reasons for preferring e-reading are much like yours, but comfort is probably my main reason. My hands become quite fatigued holding print books, especially paperbacks.

I used to spend time nearly everyday in the Waldenbooks across the street from where I worked. I'd leave there laden with a full bag of paperback books. As the years have passed that euphoric feeling I had at the time is but a vague memory. I think readers are eagerly making the move to reading eBooks, but true book lovers will hold on tightly to their precious print books.

BTW, in less than one month I have purchased ALL 19 of your available Kindle books to read on my iPod and have already read 15 of them! There are few romance authors I have continued to read since my romantic crazed decade of the 90's. I cannot express how pleased I am to have added you to my list of favorite authors.


message 6: by Marie (new)

Marie Hi Virginia,
You sound a lot like me with your love of ebooks! I'm reading paperbacks for a contest right now and honestly hating it. I can't wait to be done so I can go back to reading on my iPhone. I love that! Thank you so much for buying all of mine. That is so lovely of you! I hope you are enjoying them!


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