The Case for Romantic Fantasy

As Valentine's Day approaches, we may be reminded that romance yields some of life’s highest highs and, alas, some of its lows. Paulo Coelho, author of The Alchemist, wrote, "I'm not saying that love always takes you to heaven. It can become a nightmare. That said, it's worth the risk." 

But for the less adventurous or those in a monogamous relationship, especially in the time of COVID, sometimes it can be wise to leave your romantic visions in the realm of fantasy. My Psychology Today article today offers some questions that may evoke a fantasy you’d like to enjoy.