In Others' Words: Criticism

 

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"Criticism, like rain, should be gentle enough to nourish a man's growth without destroying his roots." ~ Frank A. Clark, "The Country Parson," journalist, editor & writer

It's the beginning of a new week. Odds are, I"l run into some criticism as I journey from here to the weekend. As a novelist, there's always a good chance I'll get feedback on my work-in-progress (WIP) — either by request or just in passing.

But I don't just interact with the imaginary people populating my manuscript. I also spend time with my family and friends, which means I will probably have opportunity to receive — and give — criticism in those relationships too.

I wonder … how will my words affect others this week? Will they be gentle, nourishing my children's growth? Or will my words destroy a friend's roots — their sense of worth? Will they walk away from me feeling more . . . or less?

In Your Words: What's the verbal weather forecast for you this week? Will the words you speak encourage growth or wreak havoc in another person's life?