How to Connect at Meet-Ups

I am not good at connecting. I and other people have very little in common. I tried connecting with writers when I was writing my book and after I had finished writing it, but I felt it would be a waste of time. Though I did attend some meet-up parties for other reasons.

That’s because of the way I see a connection party: an orgy, not of everyone, perhaps not of most, but of several people wanting something from others without care for others but themselves, who always try to connect to the t...