Who you were before the world told who you have to be?

What if we create illusions. What if our whole values and who we are is just an illusion. 

A human being is nothing but a recollection of thoughts he has about himself.

What if the life we live isn’t meant for us and we aren’t able to see it? Are you sure that your reality is the one you want or deserve? Deserve in a sense, that maybe you deserve a way better life than what you think or have created. 

Are you 100% sure that all that you are doing is worth it? All the sacrifices you take. Are they worth it? Because every sacrifice is an investment towards your goal. What is your goal? When was the last time you made sure you were moving in the right direction? Who even are you and who you want to become?

As someone said our beliefs create our thoughts, and our thoughts create our feelings, and our feelings creates our behavior, and our behavior creates our results. The result is our life. the belief is the life’s map we were given by family and society the moment we were born.

What are your beliefs? Are they true to you? Or are they outdated? If your beliefs lead to your life, so in order to change your life, you need to change your beliefs.

Simple not easy yes?!

When it comes to our life, lifestyle, and the way we move through the world, it seems to me we do it according to a pre-planned map. Which is how people around us have lived it. 

Are you even supposed to follow the footsteps other than your own?!

Are you aligned with your purpose? Do you know what is your purpose? If not which steps are you taking towards uncovering your purpose?

Every morning when you wake up you have to ask yourself Who am I today and what is my absolute goal for today. But say it as if it already is you and as if it already is happening. When I wake up this is what I say; I am a phenomenal woman, I am unshakeable peace and patience, I am kind, I am present and aware. I am the best version of myself today.

That way my brain knows the focus of the day. I have programmed myself and have a clear path for the day. 

When you know your focus of the day you are being disciplined, but don’t forget about being flexible. Life will send you some challenges here and there throughout the day to test you. To remind you about your main focus. If you aren’t being flexible you can’t welcome the unknown.

Balance is the key. Balance of the known and unknown in an equal manner. But only by fully welcoming each, you can achieve the balance.

You can create the life you want. Sometimes slowly, sometimes faster than it is for others, but surely we can create and build our lives. By taking small steps, every day towards our vision. By creating and building yourself a moment to a moment basis, you can create the life and the self you desire.   

Here are some questions you can ask yourself



Who am I? What are my beliefs in general? What are my limiting beliefs? Who I want to become? What kind of a person I want to be?What steps do I need to take on a daily basis to be the best version of myself?What are my strength and what are my weaknesses?How can I transform my weaknesses into my strength?What is my absolute life goal?What kind of life do I want to create?How can I create the life I desire? What are the steps I can take moment to a moment basis to create the life I desire?

Also, go back to your childhood. Most people become disconnected from themselves in adulthood, but kids are deeply connected to their true selves. There is a big chance that you were your truest self during the ages of 7-13.

At 7 a child is old enough to think and know what he likes and dislikes, isn’t still conditioned and has a free spirit. after 13 we become teenagers, we really want to fit in. We slowly start living life the way others would like it. All that matters at that age is to be seen, liked, and accepted.

What was that you loved doing between the ages of 7-13. Were you always dancing, painting, building houses, singing, performing, were pretending to be a teacher or a doctor?

Find out what it was and try to implement that in your daily life again.

Go back to your childhood to find and to erase things as well. That’s when all was planted in you. Your childhood can be either your friend or your enemy. Most of us don’t try to heal our inner child so it becomes our enemy. Let’s go back and befriend it. find out why is it that you are the way that you are and go where it all started.

A human being is nothing but a recollection of thoughts he has about himself or herself. So what observe your thoughts and you’ll know who you think you are.

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