Forgiving and Forgetting
I would like to hear your opinion on forgiving and forgetting. When people hurt you: do you forgive and forget? Or do you just forgive but don’t forget?
People who tend to be seen as good – usually forgive and forget. But I don’t think that this is a question of being good or evil – I think the point is about being just. So maybe the tendency to forgive and forget those that have hurt us is not necessarily a good thing. Because if we don’t do anything to people that hurt us – they will probably
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I cannot force myself to forget, I remember what I remember, but forgiving is not about that, forgiving is about HOW you remember...Sometimes people can hurt you to the extent where you CAN forgive but you don't care anymore, and then there are instances with such complicated entangled relationships, where you care no matter how they treat you...In such instances I forgive (because I get tired of myself)and they keep acting as before, but there's nothing I can do about it, I've tried, but mostly people hardly ever change and they stick to their old worldvision with you in it the same, whatever you do...