What A Writer Needs, Part 1

Lately I've been getting things in flashes.  Then this topic occurred to me.  First off, I have to say I'm writing from my perspective.  What I need may or may not be what another writer needs.  But I figure that a lot of writers out there might be helped by this.

Part 1 – The Support System (The Homefront)

Every writer needs people who cares about them no matter what.  It could be a supportive and loving family or if lacking that, it could be an eclectic collection of wonderful friends.  Those that love you and care about you are your emotional support.  You're probably wondering why you need this.

No matter how successful you become, there will be days when everything goes wrong.  It could be anything.  A bad review.  Your agent quits or worse dies.  Your editor leaves your publisher.   Your computer ate your book.   Oh, I can think of more but let's not.

This is when you turn to someone who loves you and cry on them or go have tea or go play golf.   Whatever you do with your loved ones, do it.  Release your inner anguish.   Those that care about you, stand by your side no matter what.  They cared  about you before you were "the author."   They are your balance that keeps life real for you.  Because when all is said and done, these are the people that make life worth living–family and friends.

If you don't have friends but would like them, join a community club.  Having activities outside of writing is healthy for you and inspiriational.   Listening to other views broadens your outlook on life and will influence your writing two.  Making new friends enriches you.

Look around you now and make a list of those in your support system.  I think you might be surprised to find how many people really care about you.  Making the list will bring this to your attentions and you'll feel better about everything.  Seriously now, sit down and make that list.  Frame it.  Put it where you will always see it.

–Susan

Susan Hanniford Crowley

http://www.susanhannifordcrowley.com

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