FORGIVENESS ~ Excerpt from my book, "Twelve Steps to Inner Peace"
A woman from my neighborhood came to me for healing as she was so stressed by her husband's behavior. She had recently found out that he was having an affair with someone who posed to be her friend. Her husband had stopped coming home and one day called her on the phone to let her know that he would not be coming back to her anymore. This lady loved her husband so much, she was very hurt, and she came for a healing for her heart.
We discussed about the freedom of love and how it is very important to free oneself and others to help healing to happen. After our long discussion the woman understood that her relationship with her husband had been one of dependency and control and the moment he walked out of her life, she became extremely angry and saddened. This was also affecting her health for she started suffering from ulcers.
Most of the time, we hold others as prisoners in our life. We believe something about the person in our minds and hold it as true and when the person threatens our belief, we immediately make them our enemy, and we stress and terrorize ourselves over our belief. No one can make us angry or upset, only we have the power to do this to ourselves. And we are also capable and powerful to change our life by deeply looking into and questioning our beliefs. I gave her the affirmation and visualization exercise to do every day as many times as she needed.
After about 3 weeks, she came to me again. She looked so relaxed and happy, and she said that her ulcers also went away. She told me that as she started to do the affirmations and visualizations sincerely every day, she noticed that she felt so much happier and did not feel the need to wallow in her sadness anymore. Also she was now able to see that if she truly loved her husband, she would have to allow him his freedom.
Two weeks later she told me that a week ago her husband called her and asked her to forgive him. He also said that the woman whom he was with had left him. It is interesting to note that once we choose It is interesting to note that once we choose to let go of the drama, there is no energy flowing to expand the drama in anyway.
The moment this woman started forgiving and releasing her husband, she stopped creating the drama in her life. Thus, when her energy stopped flowing in that direction, no further creation happened. Therefore, the other woman automatically left as she had been pulled and attracted only to the play of the drama. Once there was no energy feeding the drama, she had to go. Every relationship in our life is divinely orchestrated, and every situation comes to into our reality for us to anchor greater consciousness.
Whether the mind is labeling it as good or bad, every experience you have is allowing you to evolve as a Spiritual being. Each experience is guiding you to become unconditional love and compassion which is your TRUE nature. Everything that you experience today is for your ultimate Highest Good.
We discussed about the freedom of love and how it is very important to free oneself and others to help healing to happen. After our long discussion the woman understood that her relationship with her husband had been one of dependency and control and the moment he walked out of her life, she became extremely angry and saddened. This was also affecting her health for she started suffering from ulcers.
Most of the time, we hold others as prisoners in our life. We believe something about the person in our minds and hold it as true and when the person threatens our belief, we immediately make them our enemy, and we stress and terrorize ourselves over our belief. No one can make us angry or upset, only we have the power to do this to ourselves. And we are also capable and powerful to change our life by deeply looking into and questioning our beliefs. I gave her the affirmation and visualization exercise to do every day as many times as she needed.
After about 3 weeks, she came to me again. She looked so relaxed and happy, and she said that her ulcers also went away. She told me that as she started to do the affirmations and visualizations sincerely every day, she noticed that she felt so much happier and did not feel the need to wallow in her sadness anymore. Also she was now able to see that if she truly loved her husband, she would have to allow him his freedom.
Two weeks later she told me that a week ago her husband called her and asked her to forgive him. He also said that the woman whom he was with had left him. It is interesting to note that once we choose It is interesting to note that once we choose to let go of the drama, there is no energy flowing to expand the drama in anyway.
The moment this woman started forgiving and releasing her husband, she stopped creating the drama in her life. Thus, when her energy stopped flowing in that direction, no further creation happened. Therefore, the other woman automatically left as she had been pulled and attracted only to the play of the drama. Once there was no energy feeding the drama, she had to go. Every relationship in our life is divinely orchestrated, and every situation comes to into our reality for us to anchor greater consciousness.
Whether the mind is labeling it as good or bad, every experience you have is allowing you to evolve as a Spiritual being. Each experience is guiding you to become unconditional love and compassion which is your TRUE nature. Everything that you experience today is for your ultimate Highest Good.
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