AS One Bad Apple Can Spoil The Bunch, One negative Person Can Make Your Life A Disaster

For a very long time, I tried to win over negative people. I tried not to let them affect me. My goal was to be so energetically strong that negative energy couldn’t come inside and have any effect on me.

I’m not talking about interactions with negative people here and there, I mean when you have a negative person in your life as a co-worker, friend, partner, family member. I “wanted” to have a negative person in my life and I asked myself not to get affected by them.

I had false expectations and illusions.

“As they ripen, some fruits, like apples and pears, produce a gaseous hormone called ethylene, which is, among other things, a ripening agent. … Given the right conditions and enough time, one apple can push all the fruit around it to ripen—and eventually rot.”

So can negative energy be very poisonous. One person’s negative energy can slowly spoil the whole group’s energy.

For me personally, when I’m interacting with a negative person for a longer time period, my whole energy and focus go into strengthening my energetic barrier. But I don’t like being with them, I don’t want to be with them so eventually, my energy starts to leak and I end up being drained. 

We humans aren’t created to do what we don’t like. Have you noticed how kids are always full of energy and as the day goes it seems like they have more and more energy?! Because they only do what they want to do, and what they like to do.

Because kids only do what they enjoy doing they get more and more fulfilled throughout the day. We, adults, on the other hand, mostly do what we don’t like or don’t want to do. So instead of filling our energy tank, it gets leaked and we end up drained at the end of the day.

It’s possible to be so grounded and connected to the true self that you let no one, no thing change your state and have an effect on you. Also to achieve that state isn’t easy. 

To be honest I don’t think there is anyone who can spend a lot of time with negative people and don’t get affected. There are very few people who can achieve that state and even those people spend most of their time in solitude and meditation. And when left alone everyone is a good person.

Allowing negative energy in your life is a green light for the universe to send you more. So “Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.”

PS. There are also people who won’t stop, no matter what. Even if you remove them from your life, they try to come back forcefully and attack you with their spoiled energy. In that case, I don’t yet have answers. They are not just being negative, they are MEGA negative. Their whole DNA is negative. But I promise you I’ll keep you updated. I’ll let you know if I find a solution to MEGA negative people.

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