This Is How You Can Have It All

Life is like a dance. You go forward and backward, to the left or to the right and sometimes you spin and other times you spin uncontrollably. 

In today’s world, people often say “You Can Have It All”. I think that’s what we thrive for, to have it all; A family, good job, health, happiness, joy, wealth, money…

Often times we might have all, but get it at different times, one by one. 

Also, anything is possible, you might have it all, but that doesn’t mean you get to enjoy them equally at the same time. 

Here are 3 truths

1. Perfection doesn’t exist.

2. You can’t physically give your 100% to everything and everyone in your life.

3. IT IS OKAY

You don’t need to stress about it. Pay attention to what I said. I didn’t say that you can’t stress about it, I said that you don’t NEED to stress about it. If you are a volunteer victim and enjoy being nervous about everything in your life then by all means go for it. 

I guess you are a human being who just wants to feel good about his or her life and herself. 

Remember at different times different people and different things get to be our priority. So the question you need to ask yourself every single day when you wake up, is “What is my priority today” and as the day goes you have to ask yourself hour by hour, minute by minute “What is my priority right now” or “What is my priority for the next hour”…

Some days your child is a priority, other days it’s yourself. Some days your wife needs you the most other days your job needs your all.

It’s all about being in the moment and doing whatever the moment is asking from you. 

To finish the blog I will say to you. You will not have it all if that’s what you are attached to.

If having all is your goal then having nothing is what you’ll get.

Your goal should be for you to be grounded, connected to yourself and to the universe, having joy in life, and fulfilling your needs and dreams. To have people in your life to whom you feel connected and to get the sense of having a community from those people.

To just be and enjoy that being.

Then things will work itself out and somehow you will learn to enjoy your life even when you don’t like it. You will learn to surrender to the universe and let go of the notion that you are in control. When you learn to be present with whatever is your present your life becomes so much lighter.

When you will be okay without having anything, that’s when you get everything. And even then everything doesn’t look like having every damn thing.

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