Are You Waiting for “the New Normal”?

Hmmm, what if we opted out of waiting and just put one foot in front of the other?

For many years earlier
in my life, around this time in August, my mind would respond to preprogramming
and start preparing for a new cycle. Nineteen years framed by the school year –
grade school, secondary school, college and university – imprinted on my
psyche. It was a comforting rhythm aided by the fact that I am an academic at
heart.

The preprogramming faded
as the years passed, but never quite let go. September remained at some level
as the official turning of the calendar – New Year’s Day and all the hoopla associated
with it notwithstanding. September 1st was the reboot date, to put
it in modern terms.

Until
now. 2020 is
different. That, of course, is an understatement given how the world has been
turned upside down since COVID-19 arrived. In a way, it is like time has been
standing still. So much of our lives put on hold that the passage of time feels
interrupted.

It is entirely an
illusion – a trick of the mind. Time is marching on. The seasons are unfolding
as they always do. Birds are beginning to feel that ancient and instinctive
imperative to fatten up and began the long trek south to wintering grounds. We
age day by day even as we do our utmost to stave off becoming a senior citizen.

So what is it really
that has stopped?

Someone pushed the pause
button on the universal remote that regulates life across the globe. We are
collectively holding our breath, literally and figuratively, in an artificially
induced waiting state. Waiting for the danger to pass so we can resume living,
or stop worrying or start being optimistic again.

The self-proclaimed experts
tell us things are never going to be the same. That we have to prepare for the new normal. Except that no one really
knows what the new normal will look
like.

Oh, lots of experts believe they do know and are making a
name for themselves mapping out what will happen and how we should prepare for
it. But their prognostications are educated guesses at best and often coloured
by their own preferences and biases.

And so we wait, because
it seems that is all we can do. Follow the rules, stay the course and try to be
patient. Taking baby steps forward as we move into another phase of reopening.
Hoping that the predicted second wave does not come and slam the door again.

But what are we really
waiting for? For permission, it would seem, once again literally and
figuratively. But many are uncertain and uncomfortable about what form that
permission will take in the new normal.
We sense that it could have new parameters around it that fence us in, and
restrict our autonomy, which none of us want.

What are we waiting for?
We are waiting for the other shoe to drop. But every moment we wait, holding our
breath in fear, is a lost moment we cannot get back. We have to play by the
rules, albeit reluctantly, but that does not mean we cannot go on living.

So breathe, let go out fear,
take that first step, and keep putting one foot in front of the other.

~ Now
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