WATCH FOR THE FRAYED CINCH

By Stephen Bly Copyright©1993

Pete's quite a talker, so his friends avoid him if theydon't have hours to spare for a chat. But I made the mistake ofasking, "How's Ernie doing?" 
Pete's wife's brother visited for Christmas andnever left. Pete hauled him everywhere.
"Well, I'll tell ya," Pete began, "Ifigured his cinch was getting mighty frayed, so I sent him on his way."  That stirred a long diatribe, until Ifinally made my escape. But my mind got stuck the rest of the day on that oldcowboy phrase. 
When a man's cinch gets frayed, he's worn out his welcome. Infact, the Old West boasted a whole gunny sack full of phrases to describe anunwanted guest. 
He was "as welcome as a polecat at a picnic." Or shewas "as appreciated as a rattler in a prairie dog town." Or "folks go 'round'em like a swamp."
You might think that smacks againstwestern hospitality. Wasn't it the practice to offer a man a meal and a place to sleep?
Yep. But that included one supper. . .onenight's rest. . .and one breakfast. After that, a man either worked for hiskeep or rode on over the hill.
That's not too different from biblicalhospitality: "For even when we were with you, we gave you this rule," said St.Paul, "If a man will not work, he shall not eat" (2 Thessalonians 3:10). This didn't apply to the truly needy, like widows ororphans. They could most often receive support. But all others -- whether agrown child, your neighbor, a relative or a stranger riding through -- had to gather their own goods. You worked for your room andboard.
It was the Code.

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Do you find it difficult or easy to offer hospitality to folks you don't know all that well?  

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Stuart Brannon: The Final ShotComing March 2012 -- hardback & ebook
Stuart Brannon: The Final Shotby Stephen Bly (1944-2011)
Finishing Dad's novel was a family affair.
It's 1905. Two orphans flee Oregon's Tillamook Head. One of them is branded a hero. Do they tell what really happened & risk a dangerous man's wrath?
Meanwhile, Brannon searches for his missing U.S. Marshal friend & grapples with the game of golf on behalf of a charity celebrity tournament. Paperback edition releases August 2012.