Tolkien And Supporting Writers

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Tolkien And Supporting Writers

I resisted watching the movie Tolkien until yesterday.

Why?

1. I didn’t know it was an absolutely wonderful romance and the romance (with a happy ever after) is the heart of the movie.

and

2. Many movies about writers get this wonderful career so very wrong. They give us what non-writers think writers do and that can be frustrating to watch.

I was a dumb a$$. Tolkien is a wonderful film. I smiled. I cried.
I highly recommend it, especially to other writers and people who love writers.

One of the things I absolutely LOVED about the movie was it shows
how one person emotionally supported her writer.

Edith, Tolkien’s love interest, gives him a safe place to
talk about his stories. She supplies him with story prompts, often starting the
story for him. She is super okay when he takes the story in his own direction.
She pushes back when she thinks he isn’t reaching deep enough (the discussion
about language being important because it has meaning). She points out when he’s
being Mr. Grumpy Pants and not writing the stories inside him (Oh boy, did I
feel that one! The Dear Wonderful Hubby often has to push me into the writing
cave as I become very grumpy when I’m not writing.).

This relationship isn’t without errors and mistakes ARE
made. But Tolkien is articulate about his feelings and he points out when he
doesn’t like the way she supports him. For example, Edith tells him to tell her
a story and he gets huffy, replying he can’t perform on demand. She then switches
to another tactic. She starts the story for him and he takes over that story,
makes it his own. THAT works for them.

The movie shows that a supporter can be an important, often
essential part of a writer’s team. Would Tolkien have become a great writer
without Edith? I don’t know. I DO know his stories would have been extremely
different.

The Dear Wonderful Hubby and I have a very similar Supporter-Writer
relationship. He is the person I tell ALL my story ideas too. When I have story
issues, he’ll suggest different solutions and that usually allows me to find my
own solution. And he’s okay with that. He knows simply by listening, he’s being
a valuable part of the writing team.

But our relationship was and still is a work-in-progress. He
tries different tactics to support me. I tell him what works for me and what
doesn’t and he adjusts his ‘tool box’ accordingly. Well over two decades of
trial and error later, he is skilled at supporting me. I don’t know what I’d do
without him. The Dear Wonderful Hubby is now a key part of my writing process.

Do you need a supporter like the Dear Wonderful Hubby or
Edith to become a great writer? Of course not. You can write awesome stories on
your own. But if you have someone who is willing to take on that role, it might
be worth the training and the mistakes to nurture them.

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Other Chameles view him as the
enemy.

She sees the warrior hero he never
believed he could be.

* * *

Tolui is a Warlord in search of a planet
to rule. He has been leading his fellow clones in a stealth battle, fighting
for both control of the Chamele sector and the right to exist. The brave warriors
he commands warrant respect, and they deserve the best.

That best isn’t the barren,
dangerous terrain on Chamele 4. When Tolui crashes on that planet’s surface, he’s
determined to leave it as soon as possible. The tiny human female rescuing him
might be as beautiful and as wild as the land she inhabits, but her flowing
words, trusting gaze, and enthralling submission won’t stop him from rejoining
the war.

After many solar cycles of living
alone, Lea is overjoyed when a tall, scarred, muscular warrior falls from the sky.
Her savage stranger is strong and severe, and he makes her feel safe, an
emotion she hasn’t experienced in a long, long time.

He also insists they must part.
Before they do, she’ll show him the splendor of her home, and she’ll enjoy his
big form, collecting passionate moments she can revisit when she’s solitary once
more.

Every additional moment Lea and
Tolui spend together increases the chance they’ll both die. Lea is being chased
by female-hating fiends. Tolui is being hunted by the best bounty hunters in
the universe. War will soon arrive on their threshold, and the blood spilled
might be their own.

* * *

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shorter story sharing the same title.

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in a dark, gritty, sometimes-violent universe.

Warlord’s Mercy is the fifth of six
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Book 1: Warlord Sky

Book 2: Warlord’s Bounty

Book 3: Warlord Unarmed

Book 4: Warlord Reunited

Book 5: Warlord’s Mercy

Book 6: Warlord’s Return

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