reality is relative

Way too long since my last post -- I know, I know. Part of it is still being in the middle of this big, complicated divorce. Another part is that I just haven't been feeling very good, in what seems to be an on-again off-again virus. Begone, stupid virus. At least until my kids bring it back and start it circulating through the house's population (kids plus nannies plus housekeeper plus me, which gives your basic little virus all sorts of chances to mutate).

50/50 custody is weird: a regular ...