#amwriting – a look inside the author process

Woman laying on the ground on a star holding The Unlikeable Demon Hunter by Deborah Wilde.



I am a very secular Jew, though I was raised going to an Orthodox synagogue where the men and women were segregated, and where we always fasted on the High Holidays. We lit the candles on Shabbat and made our own menorahs one year for Hanukkah. I was even chapter president of my local Jewish youth group.





I was always proud to be Jewish (and always will be) and I loved the sense of community it brought. However, were things I struggled with as well. One of them was how patriarchal it is. 





When Nava and the Rabbi finally meet, he won’t shake her hand because she might be “unclean.” This happened to me as a child with an older Hassidic Jew, as well as with the Rabbi presiding over my father’s funeral. That dude didn’t even acknowledge me at all. He just spoke to my brother the entire time. 





In exploring more of my religion and its mythology in this series, I worked through a lot of gender politics. Luckily, that too tied into the stories, with Nava being the only female in this all male Brotherhood. 





We’re often told to write what we know, but the many different way that manifests, fascinates me.





Even if you aren’t Jewish, do any of these issues resonant for you?





If you want to find out if Nava came out stronger for all her struggles or misogyny got the best of her, check out The Unlikeable Demon Hunterhttps://geni.us/g1BHdhttps://geni.us/g1BHd


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Published on May 31, 2020 01:46
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message 1: by Katy (new)

Katy Lohman Patriarchal religion? Sticking with you? Oh yeah. Totally understand. I was raised Roman Catholic, where women are useful only on the side. I grew up thinking nuns were second class, compared to the almighty priests. Priests and above had spiritual authority. Nuns? Not really.

I grew up with tales of angels and saints, and having a guardian angel. My brother and I both dressed up as our patron saints for some sort of church celebration; I forget.

For a brief moment, I actually wanted to be a nun. I know - ?!?

To this day, I am still curious about angels and saints. It definitely affects my writing. Angels keep popping up in stories, even in ones they weren't supposed to be in.

Part of me will always miss the high ritual of mass, feeling a touch of the divine in a church.


message 2: by Deborah (new)

Deborah Wilde Thanks for sharing. :) It's so fascinating how this ends up colouring our writing.


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