Attention does not always mean love, and love is not just about attention.

Some people weren’t shown love as kids or had to fight for it, so they learned that, “getting attention = love.” Attention usually goes to whoever “screams” the loudest. This can show up as emotional manipulation, unruly behaviours, actual screaming, seeking attention from anyone, and getting the most “Likes” or comments on social media.

It’s a learned behaviour based on a need to feel loved.
It’s normal to want to feel loved and desired.
But getting attention doesn’t always mean you’re get...