The Fear of Others Reading Your Work

Writing doesn't scare me. Editing doesn't scare me. Having someone else read my work terrifies me, but I still want to know what they think. Sick, isn't it?

I am one that always worries what others think of her. It has been a problem I have had since I was born. This is not good for a writer because not everyone is going to like your work.

What do I do about it? First I have those that love me read it. I know that they will be honest but not nasty. If something needs to be changed, they will let me know if a manner that is encouraging and not depressing. I have my husband and my two best friends read it. I value their opinions and know if something really stinks.

If you want to try writing, don't let what others think hold you back. Give it a whirl and then let those you trust read it. You don't want a naysayer. You want someone who is honest yet constructive.

I didn't give it a try and wasted 30 years that I could have been doing this. Don't be like me.