Keeping Him Interested Through Texts & Messaging

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Some people are using this time to connect and build relationships while others are watching relationships they've built begin to crumble or people they thought were into them become distant. How do you center someone's attention back on you when you can't see them? Texting, inbox messaging, and phone calls are more important than ever. That doesn't change the fact that most people aren't good at utilizing those tools.

Pandemic or no pandemic most of you don’t know how to text because you stay stuck in your own heads, doubting instead of being yourself. As much personality as you have, why can't you just relax and wrap these dudes around your fingers in the ways I've been teaching you for years? This is the time to be making these dudes fall for you, and here you are struggling to get their attention. You're better than this! When women share with me their DMs or their text threads, I’m always disappointed in all the missed opportunities and so are they, “I realized what I should have wrote, but I couldn’t think at the time.” Why do you freeze up when messaging a man you like or shrink your personality? Because you’re still controlled by this fear of being judged. You’re smart, sexy, silly, and fun to talk to, right? But you assume that men will see you as too goofy or too boring, and quickly move on to the next chick. Therefore, you try to be cool as fuck in order to impress him or go the laid back route hoping that he applies pressure. In the end you're not going to get anywhere with that kind of weak ass attitude.

Today it's time to unleash your personality and learn how to hit men with trigger questions that will not only get them opening up but allow you two to bond on a deeper level. If you're done with being scared and shy, and are ready to unleash your Spartan personality, let's begin.

Be Aggressive - After you get done asking how his day was and he asks how your day was what else do you have to talk about? I’ve seen DMs that were dry as fuck, yet a woman tells me, “I really like him, it’s just hard to get him to open up.” You both set there and asked about work. Then asked about some producer battle. Made a joke. Now it’s silence. Why are you crushing on someone who can’t even hold a decent DM conversation in the first place? Because you like him for shallow reasons, duh. If you are determined to get to know a man deeper then take some initiative. Instead of waiting for him to write back, or waiting for the next day when you can break the ice again with a “good morning” or “how was today” be aggressive!

 If you were messaging with one of your girls, you would not struggle for conversation. You two would have blocks upon blocks of shit you’re rapidly firing back and forth because you’re excited to share what’s going on in your world and to discuss the hot topics of the that day. Why is it any different with men? “Because they don’t want to hear about that kind of stuff, they’ll think I’m immature or basic.” There you go assuming you understand how someone outside of yourself thinks. Instead of lobbing assumptions, why don’t you try to open up new lines of dialogue with these men. "He should put in effort too--" No shit, but clearly you're thinking about him, so you need to do something about it now, instead of waiting! You’re too old to be timid and shy when it comes to going for what you want.

You’re sitting on a text that he wrote and don’t know what to say, Spartan the fuck up and bring up a topic you feel like hearing his opinion on. You already DM’d him and it died out, DM him back something that keeps the conversation going like an article or a funny anecdote that once happened. It’s not hard to type, “Hey you want to hear something wild?” or “Hey can I get your opinion on something”. These guys are just as nervous as you are, and they’re trying to keep their “cool” mask on. If you want to force him into being more responsive then...

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