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[image error]Wow. Three months ago, I was really excited about 2020. I was going to sell books at all the local comic cons this year, give my cemetery postcards talk at the Gravestone Studies conference in Texas, and finish a new cemetery travel book, once I got the Angelus Rose novel published. I had so many plans!


I’m betting you had a list of things you were looking forward to this year, too.  How is that working out for you now?


Things started to fall apart for me in February. The Indie Author UnCon was great. I came away with a list of new things to try and a bad cold that knocked me out for a solid week — as well as the start of a construction project my husband and I had been putting off since we bought this house 20 years ago.  We were finally going to remove the asbestos popcorn ceiling in the living room, tear out the ugly plastic sconces in the walls, add some decent lighting, and refinish the hardwood floors. We got as far as sealing up the walls before the first stay-at-home directive came down. We can’t paint yet and the electricity hasn’t been reconnected.


[image error]I feel like I lived the whole month of March hunched over and huddled up, waiting for something terrible to happen.  My dad checked himself out of a nursing home so he could be with my mom, rather than in quarantine where he was safe, because they both were lonely. I had the hardest conversation of my life with my mom, when I told her I wasn’t coming home to be with her because I was afraid the borders would close and I wouldn’t be able to get back to my chronically ill kid. Now, at the dawn of April, everyone is doing okay so far. I’m counting my blessings.


Two of my dearest friends are in the process of surviving the virus, although they couldn’t actually get tested, despite repeated begging. I hope they are over the worst of it, finally, but I was frightened by how sick they got.


It’s spring in San Francisco.  My lemon tree is covered in blossoms and buzzing bees. The lilac is blooming. It looks like hope, but I haven’t walked any farther than the post office around the corner. The parks and playgrounds are closed, as is the parking lot at Ocean Beach. Our city supervisor wrote to say that people dressed in masks and scrubs have started going door to door, claiming to be from the health department and demanding to be let into people’s houses. Despite that, the crime rate is down because most people are staying home.


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One of the projects I’ve finished in quarantine.


My mood swings from contentment — really, this isn’t too much different than staying home with my kid before the virus came — to panic. I come from a rich lineage of hoarders, so I have plenty of projects to complete, more than enough books to read, and I think we have enough food, although the flour is running out and it’s been hard to find more. My husband is being obsessive about decontaminating the mail and washing all the groceries. I think we’ll be okay, unless society completely collapses.


But how are you? I heard that school is out in Virginia until the Fall. The news out of New York City is alarming. Are things shut down where you are? Are people being cautious?  Can you buy flour or toilet paper?


Check in, say hi, and let me know what you’re doing to keep yourself healthy and sane.


And finally, if you’re looking for something to take your mind off things, the blog tour for the As Above, So Below books is winding down. There’s a Rafflecopter giveaway for a $25 Amazon gift card, if you’d like to enter to win.  Here’s the link: https://www.silverdaggertours.com/sdsxx-tours/as-above-so-below-book-tour-and-giveaway.


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Published on April 01, 2020 11:33
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message 1: by Carole (new)

Carole Tyrrell Hi Loren
I am reading and writing and editing a lot. My photo editing software crashed and the helpline is just ringing and ringing. Life just seems surreal but I am appreciating the clear night skies and seeing a star and moon more clearly. I live near a busy motorway bridge and that has been a lot quieter.
I have taken some online writing courses and having a good walk once a day to collect the free paper that keeps me in touch and I like the crossword. 4 miles a day!
Sorry to hear that your electricity hasn't been reconnected. You were very sensible staying home before they closed the borders. but it was sad for your mom and you.
No SKYPE here so rely on FB to keep in contact with people. Fine weather last week and butterflies and ladybirds were about which cheered me up and I had a go at the garden.
When this is over will we no longer take everything for granted? - the food that people bought in panic mode is sadly abandoned and thrown out as they couldn't eat it all. Toilet paper has reappeared.
Will we change after this ? Some will but I don't think so.
Sending good wishes to you and your family to stay well and healthy and optimistic and to everyone on Goodreads.
Carole


message 2: by Melissa (new)

Melissa hi,

Here in sunny (today) Chicago, we are under Stay at Home, thought not for as long as you in California ... I'm working from home, and it's hard, but I'm getting paid and have health insurance and so ... could be worse. Meanwhile, I feel that I am not getting done all the quarantine projects that I'd love to be doing instead of working so much - the baking, the books I have to read, the Netflix I'd love to binge watch, and the de-cluttering projects around my house. Mostly we are healthy; my kid is doing college from home and that is going OK I think - we have made the study the Zoom room, so whoever has a Zoom meeting scheduled gets priority use of it.
Hope you and yours stay healthy
Melissa


message 3: by Loren (new)

Loren Melissa wrote: "hi,

I feel that I am not getting done all the quarantine projects that I'd love to be doing instead of working so much - the baking, the books I have to read, the Netflix I'd love to binge watch, and the de-cluttering projects around my house..."


I think this is a great time to be gentle with yourself. I've been chipping away at my projects, but I'm trying to just take pleasure in them, to enjoy the sense of accomplishment and not feel overwhelmed. I hope to finally finish my kid's baby book (she's 16), so we'll see.

In the meantime, hang in there. Just by staying home, we are doing something amazing.


message 4: by Loren (new)

Loren Carole wrote: "Fine weather last week and butterflies and ladybirds were about which cheered me up and I had a go at the garden. When this is over will we no longer take everything for granted? "

I hope that's the case. I'm trying to take pleasure in every little thing, and I really hope I don't lose that later when things come rushing back. For now, the cat's fur in a sunbeam and the songs of birds is nourishing me.

Hope you stay well!


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