One More Resolution

2012 is going to be the year that I stop bullshitting my friends.

 

 

At this point in my life, I'm all about action, not talk. When I complain about a boy to my friends, I want actual advice, not mollycoddling yay-saying. I don't need someone to tell me that YES it's ok to ask "Where is this relationship going?'! YES you should friend all his pals on Facebook! YES he's just intimidated by your beauty!

 

Together forever! By default!

Um no. NO. Stop. I/we don't need pretty little lies anymore. Where does that get any of us?

I have several friends who complain about the same goddamn thing over and over again, completely ignoring my advice. No more! I'm hereby committing to telling my friends the truth, even if it's ugly, painful or embarrassing.

Don't get all nettled when I say "Hey, why don't you try changing X, Y or Z?"

 

If you don't like it, please don't bring it up anymore because clearly you just love to complain.

And we all do, to a degree, but there comes a point when you have to be a woman and cowboy the fuck up and either CHANGE or STFU.

 

Bottom line: I have the most amazing friends ever. And I want to see them happy. It hurts me to not only see them making the same mistakes 100x but expecting me to celebrate it!

Life is for the living, and living means adapting and learning. And you can't learn from or change what you don't acknowledge.

What do you guys think of this? Would you want to be besties with a blunt bitch like myself??