A clarification…because I'm sure I'll need it…
I'm sure my last post is going to draw all kinds of wrong assumptions, so I'm going to explain why I'm pissed off about people casually tossing the pedophile label on people left and fucking right, even when it doesn't apply to a given situation or person. But the short version is, you're using the label in a broader and broader meaning, like it's a fucking catch-all for all "man problems." You need to stop that shit, because this IS a slippery fucking slope and none of you will like where the bottom takes you.
First of all, pedophilia is when someone looks at prepubescent kids and thinks of these skinny undeveloped bodies as so hot, they only want sex with those little people. They want that so bad, they can't even have normal sex with adults without thinking of kiddie sex. That's a disease, but it's often an inherited disease, passed on to them at early childhood. Sometimes it happens as a result of molestation, and sometimes it is a mutually consensual act that locks them in that mindset that this age was perfect for sex.
That's right, two kids having sex can lead to one kid idolizing sex and turning it into a life-long fetish, to an unhealthy mindset that cannot be defended as anything but diseased and corrupted. It doesn't really matter how a pedophile is made, whether under "good" or "bad" encounters, the end result is a person so fundamentally flawed in the estimation of society that the only definite form of treatment that can EVER be offered to a pedophile is heavy drugs and/or incarceration in buildings where rape and humiliation of the pedophile is routinely encouraged.
This is a dangerous, vile, loaded word, and when you use it on someone it actually applies to, you fucking doom them to be a social pariah FOREVER. They have to bear the burden of shame for being sick, and there's no humane attempts at treating the disease. Every culture uses the scarlet letter approach to treating this disease. So if every pedophile growing up sees how you treat all pedophiles, why in the fuck would they come forward for voluntary abuse at the hands of a lynch mob? It's in their own best interests to stay in the closet until you pry them out and expose them.
But what pisses me off worse isn't when you apply it to people who are sick and need of medical help in the worst way. It's when you apply it to guys for taking any interest in girls that there's a big gap in their ages. I've seen people say, "Oh, he's twenty-two and he's fucking a fifteen-year-old. He's a pedophile." NO. Damn it, that dude may be wrong for fucking the teen. You can get me to agree to that, depending on the circumstances of the relationship. He may have exploited her trust, and I'll agree to whatever other claims you want to make about his lewd sexuality. But you do not doom a man with the label of desiring sex stick thin children when he's going after someone who already looks, walks, talks, and acts like a grown woman. Then it's not him who has a diseased mind. It's you, for looking at him in such a myopic and distorted manner.
You keep expanding the label of what's sick in your society, and yet you never question if this is the right course in treating the problem. Shunning has NEVER worked at making problems go away, and the cycle of violence is perpetrated by both sides. It starts with a society that offers no humane treatment options for a disease that's created by society as well.
It's universally agreed now that wanting sex with undeveloped kids is wrong. Hey, totally in agreement with you, except I'm not so clear on why the universal treatment of a sexual disease is raw hatred even worse than if the person murdered the child outright. Murderers and rapists get less bile spewed on them, and seriously, people, I can't go a day without someone throwing out the word, usually misapplying it to someone who cannot fairly be called a pedophile. Call them perverts, jerks, predators, assholes, or statutory rapists. Pick any of these fitting labels, and then I'll not only join in the chant, I'll fucking help you light torches and sharpen pitch forks for the really guilty guys, the ones who take glee in corrupting and harming other people. For those people, I don't care what the age or gender of their victim is, because what they've done is deserving of a punishment.
I don't get mad at you people for being worried about your kids. I get mad because you've become so paranoid about this one evil lurking in your midst that this is your modern vampire or werewolf. It's why I wrote a book about a pedophile werewolf, because I was trying to show you, "This, people, is your biggest monster, the thing you fear so badly that you won't face the problem rationally." And now you're so afraid of this one monster label, you're casting it on everyone all the fucking time. This is your modern McCarthy red hunt, but instead of looking for commies, you're hunting for pedos. Even for pedos that don't exist. "Are you now, or have you ever thought of touching a kid?" — "Well, when I was a kid—" — "PEDOPHILE!" And down cometh the ban hammer of society, casting off one more male to the pit of rape and other inhumane follies. Happy is the society, for once again they can vicariously gnaw on the suffering of a filthy, lowly, dirty pedophile. It doesn't solve the problem, but man, doesn't it feel good to think about torturing someone without having to feel one ounce of guilt for having violent rape fantasies?
If you're nodding your head that it feels good, you're not healthy. And now if you're shaking your head, you're definitely not healthy.
If we as a world society are ever going to get rid of child brides, forced underage prostitution, and other forms of child exploitation, we first need to come to terms with this disease in a more rational and humane way than it has been addressed by any previous society, modern or ancient.
Obviously, if I'm against child brides, I'm not advocating sexual freedom for an unhealthy sexual fetish. But, I am not for the idea of making every pedophile a criminal simply for having the disease. Now if you do find a guy in a playground, with a doll, candy, and chloroform, that's not an issue with me if you want to arrest him. Book him, Dan O.
But after his arrest, what you encourage the other prisoners to do to them is inhumane treatment that you wouldn't allow to happen to a murderer in the same prison. You'd demand more human treatment for the cop killer on death row than you would for the dude who gets arrested without committing a crime yet. The murderer should get access to as many lawyers as possible to help in his last minute plea defenses, and he has the right to die with dignity, without cruel or unusual punishment. You know, like say, a six-year sentence with the guards pimping a person out to every rapist on every block for a little off-the-grid profit.
Sure, that's cruel and inhumane punishment…but so what? These people are the least of us. And it's not like you're in a country which claims to be predominantly Christian. But you know, I can't help but recall that guy Jesus saying something about "the least of us." Uhm…oh darn, I know it was kind of important, like one of the central points that he was making. And yet, none of his apostles got that point. None of his disciples do, either.
Oh, right, I got it: "What you do to the least of us, you do to me."
He also said, "Let those who are without sin cast the first stone." Well you people don't do stoning in America, but you do toss around the word pedophile with no thought of its impact. It's becoming your sickness, and it's just one more reason I hate looking at America these days.
You're not the land of the free, or the home of the brave. You're scared shitless of everything, and you're making accusations with labels like you're having a modern day witch hunt hysteria. "Maybe he's a pedophile." If his victim isn't prepubescent, no. If his victim is a teenager, no. Especially no if it's a teenager using makeup to look older. Because then, we're not talking about a pedophile. We're just talking about a man thinking with his dick. That's possibly still a criminal offense depending on the circumstances and actual evidence at hand, but it's a whole other shade of grey from using the word pedophile.
Just, stop trying to start a New Salem with the pedo label, because your paranoia plate is already full of terrorists, okay?
