Same Mold, Same Mold

I seem to keep getting together with the same messed up guy over and over again. Basically, the men I'm attracted to all have the same issues (emotionally unavailable, fear of commitment, etc.). Each time, I tell myself I can make things different. How do I stop doing this?

--Broken Picker

Your problem isn't being attracted to guys who turn out to be messed up. It's going forward with them after you discover that. It's like seeing the sign "Shark-Infested Waters" and then saying to yourself,...