It's funny how some things become indelibly imprinted on us.
As a kid, I remember my mom telling me more than once to never let the whisk sit in water or it would rust. I don't know if she didn't have a stainless steel whisk or if she only thought it would rust or if it was something else all together, but to this day, I always rinse off the whisk and then set it on the counter. It makes me wonder how many other things I do without realizing it's from things I heard as a child.
It's also a strange way to remember my mom. Every time I use the whisk, I think of her. I swear that I can even hear her voice in my head reminding me about rusting.
When my mom died, I never thought she'd come back into my thoughts because of such a strange thing. Birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, memorable moments--yes. Using a whisk? Such an ordinary, mundane thing? It surprised me.
But then maybe it is the ordinary moments that resonate somewhere deep inside us, the unexpected moments. The quiet moments.
Published on November 07, 2019 07:00