MALE SPEECH CODES STRICTLY ENFORCED IN MATRIARCHAL HOUSEHOLDS

A frequent commenter to these posts over recent years signs his name “femdup.” He is the real deal, by the way, a submale raised from his earliest years to take his place at the feet of superior females, and one who has passed his entire existence under strict matriarchal rule.
Just this week “femsup” added a comment to an older post, actually dating back to the very first year of this blog, “Enforcing MaleSilence in a Female Led Home” (June 9, 2016).
“femsup’s” comment is actually a heartfelt confession of the shame and chagrin he experiences whenever he has his mouth washed out with soap for speaking “out of turn,” or “over” a female, or without showing proper respect. Here it is:
“For me it’s being sent upstairs to have my mouth washed out with soap. Not for using any expletives but for talking out of turn or over a Woman. It’s very embarrassing when other Women are present, particularly from outside of our [matriarchal] community, and they see me come down with a sour face with bubbles coming out of my mouth and when I am then given permission to speak. I say particularly embarrassing, but many times I am red from embarrassment just for letting my Wife down in front of other aware Female Supremacists. [Femsup]

Now, as promised, to fill out the posting, I will add some snippets (collected from many online sources over the years) that deal with enforcing strict speech codes on over-talkative males, including the timely use of bar soap:
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“In a Femdom home there is a time for males to speak and they should be trained to know the rules of the house. At other times, if a male has something to say, he should know how and when to ask permission to speak. Also, males should be trained to stop talking immediately when directed to do so by a woman.” [Mistress Sandra]

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“Whenever I talk back or sass I am spanked hard while i have a bar of soap in my mouth and then put in the corner for 30 minutes. No rinsing or spitting allowed or I will be gagged as well.” [source unknown]

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“In addition to the OTK and cornertime, if my wife thinks I have been disrespecting her, she does not hesitate to put a bar of soap in my mouth while I am doing cornertime. Let's just say I know who is in charge of our house.” [source unknown]

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“i enjoyed your post on men’s talking too much; a delightful piece that brought back fond memories of growing up in an all-Female home. Mom often left my Sisters in charge with wide latitude to take whatever actions They considered appropriate to keep me in line. i always did what i was told, when i was told and if i didn’t Mom would be told. One of the things that was always demanded of me was that i SHUT UP. My Sisters just didn’t want to listen to male talk – it bored them… i learned to ‘speak when spoken to!’ And to be brief with my answers when i was.” [dennis of Nancy and …]

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“Males in our family knew to keep quiet; proper behavior was put forward in a book of rules we called Protocols. Men were responsible for knowing them and abiding by them. Knowing when to speak - and more importantly when not to speak - was an important protocol and one that was driven home with any man coming into the family. Men learned to stop talking immediately when commanded or when a woman started talking over him. They also learned that women weren't interested in what they had to say.” [Lady Susan, dennis’ Mother-in-Law]

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“I can expect sharp slap to the face if I talk out of turn or over what a Woman is saying. I have had tape put over my mouth for transgressing and of course a spanking, tawsing or caning. Most usually though it is a finger applied to my lips and a loud shush.” [zardoz] 

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“Doing all the housework while she sits and eats bonbons, giving her all the money you make, accepting an allowance, having her wash your mouth out with soap if you say a nasty word - it's all good if two consenting adults want to do it, as far as I'm concerned.” [source unknown]

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“My wife and I have a ‘total obedience’ understanding; in other words, without question I accept discipline from her whenever and wherever she feels I need it. She makes use of the very effective rituals that go hand-in-hand with hard bare-bottom spankings (i.e., baring the bottom, kneeling in the corner, fetching the implement, asking for punishment before, thanking for punishment after, ridiculous costumes, soap in the mouth, assigned lines in a journal, announcing a spanking in a restaurant, and one very special witness). There are no safe words, and spanking sessions are frequent, prolonged and very severe, always producing tears and promises to be good.” [source unknown]

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“I have acquired some more severe instruments of correction which I keep on display on my bedside table and do not hesitate to use. Any backchat is rewarded with a spoonful of English mustard or an hour in the corner with a piece of soap under his tongue, or both.” [unknown domme]

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“For one week i was spanked almost every night, and had to do lines, and my wife washed my mouth out with soap and my corner time was done with a bar of soap in the mouth, and for the week i did not get to watch tv.” [source unknown]

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“I committed the unforgivable sin of using profanity in front of a neighbor. The consequences were immediate and humiliating: My wife not only washed my mouth out with a softened bar of clear soap but afterward marched over to the woman’s place, made me apologize, and offer to make amends.” [source unknown]

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“My wife got into the habit of having me kneel in the bathroom and she would wash my mouth out with a soapy rag before allowing me to lick her bottom. I always found it very humiliating to have to have my mouth cleaned in order for it to touch her there.” [source unknown]

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“I’ve had my mouth washed out with Ivory because in a fit of anger I called my Mistress a bitch. That soap tastes horrible, particularly if you get one that has a lot of perfume. One tip: Eat a big bar of chocolate after. It kills the taste (a little bit). [source unknown]

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“After my boots were shining, I told my slave to remove them. Then I ordered him to clean his face, his mouth and his tongue with soap. I specifically told him to wash his tongue and the insides of his mouth with soap as I intended to make him lick my feet and also keep my feet inside his mouth.” [source unknown]

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[A typical excerpt from the daily calendar of “Ms. Rika”]7:15 - 7:45: While I bathe, he will then: Prepare my breakfast / Lay out clothes he'd like to see me in / Report back in to my bath to: Heat up the water / Shampoo my hair / Scrub my back / Be my personal soap dish (his mouth). 7:45: Towel me off. 7:50 - 8:05: I'll eat my breakfast now... in my bathrobe with him giving me a quick pedicure. 8:05 - 8:35: Time to bring me to my first orgasm of the day, maybe two. / 8:35 - 8:45: Time to bring him close again...and deny. [Ms. Rika]

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“My wife has hit me across the face a few times, usually out of sudden anger for some infraction, and I admit it was always deserved. She also takes great delight at sticking a small bar of soap in my mouth for using foul language, a habit I am slowly overcoming.”[Male commenter to Mistress Kathy’s Femdom 101 blog]

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“A few household rules my husband must follow: Ask permission to leave the house. Answer his phone whenever I call. Go to bed promptly at 10 p.m. Address me as Mistress in private and Ma’am in public. Consequences for his failure to do any of the above: Make him sleep on the floor. Take his phone away. Wash his mouth out with soap.”

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“Cassie had finally had enough assworship. ‘Rinse,’ she said and pushed Stephen away. The male turned and thrust his face into the big red plastic bowl full of soapy water on the floor. Cassie used her foot on the back of his head to push him in and out of the water several times to ‘clean him up.’ Then he swiveled and put his face down into the blue plastic bowl, which had plain water. He gargled and spat and dunked his head some more.” [from the story “Enjoying Stephen” by Eosuchus]

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