Gifts and Givers - Part 2
For I testify that according to their ability, and beyond their ability, they gave of their own accord, begging us with much urging for the favor of participation in the support of the saints, and this, not as we had expected, but they first gave themselves to the Lord and to us by the will of God [2 Corinthians 8:3-5].
You see, I cannot please the Lord by giving Him things. He already owns everything! The only way I can please Him is to first give Him my entire life, and then I will be inclined to give Him things from my life because I love Him and want to do so. This is the Biblical principle Paul wanted the Corinthian saints to learn, which means their giving was wrongly motivated. They gave to the sound of trumpets and the singing of their own praises. They acted like self-centered spiritual babies, carnal through and through. Their gifts were unacceptable.
How does this apply to you and me today? In every way! If a husband gives his wife a wedding anniversary gift but ignores her the rest of the year, I guarantee you she is not impressed and despises the gift. She would feel she was being treated like she was for sale. The same applies to a wife who gives her husband a wedding anniversary gift, but the rest of the year she runs around with everyone in town spreading defamatory gossip about her husband. No doubt about it. Hubby despises her gift. First hubby needs to give himself to his wife, and then she will appreciate his gift. The same applies to wifey.
Consider the parent-kid relationship. If Dad and Mom live at the job and let Nanny Nancy raise their kids, the birthday and Christmas presents will ring hollow at a very early age. I’ve seen it happen all too frequently. But let Dad and Mom often spend time with the kids doing things the kids like to do, and a cheapy toy means a lot to them!
Reversing the roles, let the kids treat their parents disrespectfully like they can readily learn on the street and on the TV, and any gift they give will not mean much to the parents. This is especially true when the kids grow up. There comes a time when our kids insist so strongly they are adults, that we have every right and expectation to expect them to relate to us as adults. If they are never around for us, especially in our need, then their once a year Christmas gift isn’t much consolation. Truth be told, I wouldn’t want to be bothered with it. They first must grow up enough to recognize the need to give themselves to me and be there for me, and then the gifts will follow.
This would be an apropos time for me to take inventory of my life. Am I first giving myself to those whom I love, or am I presuming I can buy them with gifts? Is my heart in it when I relate to them, or am I merely meeting an obligation or looking for some sort of recognition or reward? Hmm. Those are toughie questions. Think I’ll betake myself to the Lord. He can search me and help me to grow in this area.
To further research this issue, I direct you to my book Deuteronomy: Volume 5 of Heavenly Citizens in Earthly Shoes. To purchase my books please go to:
http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B005PJ761C
https://sites.google.com/site/heavenl...
You see, I cannot please the Lord by giving Him things. He already owns everything! The only way I can please Him is to first give Him my entire life, and then I will be inclined to give Him things from my life because I love Him and want to do so. This is the Biblical principle Paul wanted the Corinthian saints to learn, which means their giving was wrongly motivated. They gave to the sound of trumpets and the singing of their own praises. They acted like self-centered spiritual babies, carnal through and through. Their gifts were unacceptable.
How does this apply to you and me today? In every way! If a husband gives his wife a wedding anniversary gift but ignores her the rest of the year, I guarantee you she is not impressed and despises the gift. She would feel she was being treated like she was for sale. The same applies to a wife who gives her husband a wedding anniversary gift, but the rest of the year she runs around with everyone in town spreading defamatory gossip about her husband. No doubt about it. Hubby despises her gift. First hubby needs to give himself to his wife, and then she will appreciate his gift. The same applies to wifey.
Consider the parent-kid relationship. If Dad and Mom live at the job and let Nanny Nancy raise their kids, the birthday and Christmas presents will ring hollow at a very early age. I’ve seen it happen all too frequently. But let Dad and Mom often spend time with the kids doing things the kids like to do, and a cheapy toy means a lot to them!
Reversing the roles, let the kids treat their parents disrespectfully like they can readily learn on the street and on the TV, and any gift they give will not mean much to the parents. This is especially true when the kids grow up. There comes a time when our kids insist so strongly they are adults, that we have every right and expectation to expect them to relate to us as adults. If they are never around for us, especially in our need, then their once a year Christmas gift isn’t much consolation. Truth be told, I wouldn’t want to be bothered with it. They first must grow up enough to recognize the need to give themselves to me and be there for me, and then the gifts will follow.
This would be an apropos time for me to take inventory of my life. Am I first giving myself to those whom I love, or am I presuming I can buy them with gifts? Is my heart in it when I relate to them, or am I merely meeting an obligation or looking for some sort of recognition or reward? Hmm. Those are toughie questions. Think I’ll betake myself to the Lord. He can search me and help me to grow in this area.
To further research this issue, I direct you to my book Deuteronomy: Volume 5 of Heavenly Citizens in Earthly Shoes. To purchase my books please go to:
http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B005PJ761C
https://sites.google.com/site/heavenl...
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