Choosing to Realize Being “Good and Mad” is All Wrong
@bethvogt
I almost got into an argument with a good friend yesterday – one of my best friends, as a matter of fact.
But I hit a huge roadblock on my way to getting “good and mad.”
I was lining up all my reasons for being angry and staying that way, and then I got up to walk around my house and put some steps on my FitBit. My FitBit prompts me to log at least 250 steps each hour. We writers embrace the motto “backside in chair” to meet deadlines, and we need nudges like that to get up and move.
While I walk, sometimes I play Words with Friends. And sometimes I pray, using prayer cards I wrote out after I read Fervent by Priscilla Shirer.
Yesterday morning, I prayed.
The title of the prayer?
“My Hurts.”
It opened with these lines: I want to walk in freedom, especially in the area of forgiveness. I do not want a root of bitterness to grow up in my heart for any reason. I want to be at peace with others.
Ahem.
I could either stop praying and hold onto my anger, or I could keep praying and let God work on my attitude. My self-righteousness.
The words could be rote … or they could become truth and gentle conviction.
I was halfway through the prayer before the tightness eased in my chest. Before I did more than just read the words. Before I admitted my attitude was wrong and chose to stop being angry with my friend.
My friendship is so much more valuable than my wrong attitude.
My earlier texts with my friend had stopped because she was busy with her job and I was busy, well, getting my heart right. Then these words appeared:
My friend: I don’t want to get sideways with you.
Me: I don’t want to get sideways with you either. #youknowtoomuch
My friend: I love you.
Me: I love you, too.
We were good because we chose our friendship over anything else. And that is the best kind of friendship. A friendship worth fighting for.
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