Be Bold, Take Some Leisurely Time

That is one weird title, isn’t it? Saying “Be Bold, Take Some Leisurely Time” is basically saying that taking time away from work is an important part of your craft. This post is written in the terms for writers, but it is applicable to any practitioner or entrepreneur who spends too much time working. The self-driven kinds of people forget that leisurely time is needed. This is why you need to be bold and be willing to take the stance of doing nothing. The trick is knowing how to take a break and when to start again. You can easily get yourself stuck in a rut and not start up again.

Welcome to Another Edition of Unprocessed Thoughts

The year is 2019. We are at the end of a decade. For my writing career, this is the most exciting year to date. Over the past year, I’ve sold several short stories and am having my first novel release not published by me (The White Hand). To make all of this exciting stuff happen requires a lot of discipline and routine. That is the key that made it happen for me. The past year could be summed up by saying: being a working horse and sticking to a ridged routine, then you get some positive results. The process doesn’t sound very exciting does it? There is truth to that, and it can become a double edged sword.

When one is busy all the time, if you’re not careful, you
can burn out fast and hard. Then the recovery time is a long and frustrating
process (because you become burnt out mentally and physically). This is why it
is important to learn how to take breaks. Find other interests other than being
totally wrapped up in work all the time.

Sometimes you will be required to put in 110%. You’ll be living
and breathing a new manuscript or project. That’s fine, we’ve all been there. It
is when you are at an end point or at a milestone within the project, you must remember
to reward yourself.

Reward Yourself With Leisurely Time

Personally for me I have a number of hobbies that I know are
simply hobbies. They aren’t going to be anything fantastical or something I
strive for with all ambition – like I do with writing – they are simply
activities I do for me. Just as your activities should be only for you. These
activities are important to allow yourself to relax and explore. It’s like when
you first learned you were into writing, you didn’t know a lot about it, but
you are drawn to it. That’s what your hobbies should be for, letting your mind
be curious.

Your leisurely time could be as simple as catching up on a
TV series that you enjoy or play a video game or pick up a musical instrument.
It doesn’t matter, as long as you are intentionally not working.

Be Bold and Step Away

One thing for self-driven people is that they do forget to
stop. It can be tough to let go and step away from the work. This takes courage
since you are so tightly attached to it. When you finally do let go of the work,
you realize it isn’t that bad. You’d be amazed to find out that most things can
wait a day.

Reward yourself with time off and make sure you follow
through with it. If you are known to constantly check your emails, maybe set
your email to only send notifications during workday hours. Or if you’re bold,
uninstall your email app all together. Keep email just on your computer. It can
make a world of difference to your well being.

Taking Too Much Time

Now, lets say you mustered up the courage to take time off
and you are enjoying yourself too much. Sometimes it can be a challenge to get
back into the swing of working. This is where the work/life balance behaves
like a tug-o-war session. You’re constantly trying to maintain a good balance
of the two so you don’t work too hard and burn out or you take too much time
off and never get anything done. Listen to your body and mind. More often than
not they are telling the truth. If you’re tired you’d best rest. Don’t let it
fool you though, sometimes it thinks you needs to sleep more than you really
do.

Leisurely Time Is Part of the Process

Something not enough people talk about is how important time
off is. A lot of motivational speakers, entrepreneurs, life coaches, etc, all
talk about methods of working and how to maximize your abilities. They rarely –
if at all – talk about how necessary the stage of doing nothing is. Especially
for anyone within the creative realm of thinking. Taking time to let your mind
wander or play with a hobby will allow your brain to work in new ways. You’ll
gain new perspectives on the old and experience the world in a new light. Then,
when you sit down again to work on that draft – or project – you will be
recharged when visiting a place of familiarity.

In short, be bold and take some leisurely time to help your
craft.   

Beer Note: Stolen Canoe Pale Ale, Township 24 Brewery

This month I had Township 24 Brewery’s Stolen Canoe Pale Ale.
A pale ale that has 5.6% alcohol level. It is a light and refreshing taste with
a slight bitterness. If you enjoy pale ale beers, this is one that is easy to
sip on without the taste getting old.

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