m4dh4ttey266:hobbitkaiju:paskakissa:biggest hetero lie i’ve been told: fighting is a part of a...

m4dh4ttey266:

hobbitkaiju:

paskakissa:

biggest hetero lie i’ve been told: fighting is a part of a healthy romantic relationship

Disagreements are a part of every healthy relationship. Having bad days when you’re not your best self is a part of every healthy relationship. Fighting, disrespect, and insults? Those are not healthy at all. 

^^^^^^^^^^^^ the fact that some people don’t get this is staggering.

To all the women out there in hetero relationships: gender role-based injustice and imbalance are horse shit. Don’t settle for domestic slavery, for always putting your own needs/wants/time/dreams second. That isn’t actually mandatory, in spite of what you’ve seen/heard/grown up with the example of, etc. You don’t need to accept this.