There is no answer

I have loose ligaments. I know this. I had surgery on my right shoulder because I systematically pulled out each and every one by over doing it. It is both a blessing and a curse, and right now the curse side is winning. I saw the surgeon. He could try something. But it really would not do much. In fact, it could make things much worse. He had x-rays done. They showed that in addition to all the other crap, my hand bones are coming away from my arm. I suspected this. Did you know you can pop your wrist?...