Turn the other cheek?

Inna seidharai oruthhal avar naana nannayam seidhu vidal - Tirukkural Avenge yourself on he who does ill to you by shaming him by doing good to him and forgetting both the evil he did and the good you did in return - Loose translation One does try to see Tiru as still a worthy adviser in contemporary times but it is certainly an uphill task. I mean, yeah, even when someone advises you to turn