Altruistic Selfishness

 

In an increasingly chaotic world (or so it seems), it’s always best to focus on things you know with certainty have a tangible value for you, before delving out as a contemporary don Quixote on the evanescent barricades of social media.

These things probably are/should be ultra-personal, and hence you should perhaps indulge in private rather than spilling all your beans publicly. This in itself is a challenge in such a flaunting culture as ours. But that’s exactly why it’s extra important.

When someone asks you what you’ve done for others/the world today, either lie and say “nothing,” or tell the truth if that’s more comfortable. You may have masturbated, had sex with someone, cleaned the house, listened attentively to your favourite record, read a great book, etc. Something that is of no apparent utilitarian use to anyone else but you.

Why is this more important than engaging in ambitious problem-solving in these times of global crises? Because it genuinely makes you happier. If you are indeed engaged in altruistic work and efforts, that’s great as long as it’s not only a lifestyle accessory. It needs to be an honest endeavour to have meaning and value – just like masturbation.

It’s the indulgence in making your innermost fantasy a satisfying, tangible reality (albeit temporarily) that creates meaning in life. Integrating that meaning in your daily existence is an irrevocably efficient way to create a much better and happier world.

Genuine general altruism never stems from frustrated individual sources. Therefore never believe any one demagog who’s frustrated or not successful at what they claim makes them happy.

Have they not masturbated enough lately? Have you?