Ten months ago Congresswoman Gabby Giffords was shot in her head from a distance of three feet. Her brain injury was one that only 10% of people survive. Not only has the Congresswoman survived, but her story was aired this week on TV and we saw that Giffords is walking, talking, smiling and even singing. And, by hr side the entire time has been her astronaut hubby, Mark Kelly.
Kelly has been an integral part of his wife's healing process. She's fiddled with his wedding ring, has remembered their first date, and he's pushed her the way no one else has been able to.
Having a strong and loving relationship is wonderful for those of us who experience it, but look at what else it can do for us. Our partner, the person we love and respect and would do anything for, can help us out of our deepest holes. That's an incredibly important connection to have, if ever we find ourselves in Giffords' shoes.
Studies have shown that interpersonal relationships affect us more than just emotionally. They can invigorate, inspire and apparently even heal. If you have a partner, foster that relationship with them. It will help your life today, but could affect you in ways you never would imagine tomorrow.
Published on November 17, 2011 04:47