The 5 punishment languages

When our kids misbehave, most of us have a strong tendency to lash out. Unless we have truly done the long, hard work of dying to self (which is an ongoing process), then most of the time, even if we dress it up in fancy language and justifications, in the heat of the moment, we just want revenge. We want to feel powerful. We want to tip the scales back in our favour.  We want to punish and teach our kids a lesson.

In my observation there are 5 languages of punishment that we naturally gravit...