Try Listening For Once
This
Re-Post
is from
October 1st, 2015
called
Listening.
Everyone from my
Wife,
Kids,
and assorted
Relatives,
have told me I have gone back to my old ways.
So,
as a reminder to myself,
I went back
and
Re-Posted
this story to help me from being annoying!
*****
I haven't always been like this.I used to be a good listener.I could listen to a song by a rock band,say
Dashboard Confessional,and I could tell you what key they were in,how many guitars were being overdubbed to create the song,and what chords were being played.In my"Middle Ages,"the period of my life between35 and 55 years old,when I finally figure out how to talkand listen to people properly,I became a"Salesman."Making a pretty good living for my familyand I.My problem today is,it took only about one year to forget how to listen to people properly!Now,
I want people to listen to me,hearing what I have to say.When someone speaks,I always seem to anticipate what they are going to sayor what they are talking about before they finishand interrupt.If you know someone like this,you know how annoying they can be.This is what I have become,that person.I blame a number of changes in my life for losing the skill of"Attentive Listening."
If I had to pick one major reason why I lost the skill,it would have to be impatience.I am no longer patient with people when I would rather be doing something else,like reading,taking my nightly walks,working on a new story,or writing on my
Blog.In life,you must be able to take"Constructive Criticism"from the people you trustand learn to grow as a human being.This will bring happiness in your life when you work on the flaws you feel you haveand improve on them.So,starting today,right after I'm bailed out of
Jail
for not getting out of my carand assuming the position when the the
Sheriff
told me to,I am going to relearn the skill of,"Attentive Listening."Because,
I am definitely sure,
that the
Judge
will not look too kindly on me during the
Arraignment,
when he asks me a questionand I say,"What?"
This is,I Do Have This Flaw,
But I Did Not Get Arrested,
I Am Just Trying To Be Funny, Jim Hauenstein,
And,
“We have two ears and one mouth, so we should listen more than we say.” - Zeno of Citium -
That is my story and I am sticking to it!
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Sign up as a Follower,or Set up my Blogas your Homepageon your Web-browser,or Leave a Comment,or a Suggestion,and I will answer you in a Post.
Thanks for reading.
If you are reading this on aCell-Phone,below this story you will see aLinkwhere it says;View Web Version.To truly get the full benefit of myBlog,I suggest you view the web version.You will just have to expand the page to be able to read it.
Thanks Again.
Re-Post
is from
October 1st, 2015
called
Listening.
Everyone from my
Wife,
Kids,
and assorted
Relatives,
have told me I have gone back to my old ways.
So,
as a reminder to myself,
I went back
and
Re-Posted
this story to help me from being annoying!
*****
I haven't always been like this.I used to be a good listener.I could listen to a song by a rock band,say
Dashboard Confessional,and I could tell you what key they were in,how many guitars were being overdubbed to create the song,and what chords were being played.In my"Middle Ages,"the period of my life between35 and 55 years old,when I finally figure out how to talkand listen to people properly,I became a"Salesman."Making a pretty good living for my familyand I.My problem today is,it took only about one year to forget how to listen to people properly!Now,
I want people to listen to me,hearing what I have to say.When someone speaks,I always seem to anticipate what they are going to sayor what they are talking about before they finishand interrupt.If you know someone like this,you know how annoying they can be.This is what I have become,that person.I blame a number of changes in my life for losing the skill of"Attentive Listening."

Blog.In life,you must be able to take"Constructive Criticism"from the people you trustand learn to grow as a human being.This will bring happiness in your life when you work on the flaws you feel you haveand improve on them.So,starting today,right after I'm bailed out of
Jail
for not getting out of my carand assuming the position when the the
Sheriff
told me to,I am going to relearn the skill of,"Attentive Listening."Because,
I am definitely sure,
that the
Judge
will not look too kindly on me during the
Arraignment,
when he asks me a questionand I say,"What?"
This is,I Do Have This Flaw,
But I Did Not Get Arrested,
I Am Just Trying To Be Funny, Jim Hauenstein,
And,
“We have two ears and one mouth, so we should listen more than we say.” - Zeno of Citium -
That is my story and I am sticking to it!
Like what you are reading?
Sign up as a Follower,or Set up my Blogas your Homepageon your Web-browser,or Leave a Comment,or a Suggestion,and I will answer you in a Post.
Thanks for reading.
If you are reading this on aCell-Phone,below this story you will see aLinkwhere it says;View Web Version.To truly get the full benefit of myBlog,I suggest you view the web version.You will just have to expand the page to be able to read it.
Thanks Again.
Published on December 10, 2018 13:20
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