Kit’s Year in Review

Something I started last year makes me able to do something super cool this year…

Review my year and see how full it was of hard work, good play and maybe a wee bit too much shopping.

Yes, I’m a planner girl. Since going off the Franklin-Covey system in the 90’s, I got my first Erin Condren in November 2017. And since, I’ll admit it, I’ve gone sticker mad (and I do not care).

But mostly, I jot just about everything down, even if it’s just a note, and it was pretty danged awesome to flip back through my year and see the highs, and even remember some of the lows, if only to note they happened, and I’m still kickin’.

It also gives me the opportunity to remember, and share, what was Kit’s Best of 2018.

Which is what I’m gonna do right now.

Best Moment: Jumping out of the cake at my 50th Birthday Party. I wore what was described as “a Marilyn Monroe” sequined gown and I managed to climb out of it without falling on my face. But let me tell you, being surrounded by loved ones who were all laughing their butts off and cheering me on for being the huge dork I proudly am is the absolute BEST way to turn 50.

Best Book: (four-way tie) CONSUMED by JR Ward; THE GIRL WITH THE DRAGON TATTOO by Stieg Larsson; THE HATE U GIVE by Angie Thomas and SHARP OBJECTS by Gillian Flynn. Honorable mention: Flesh series, by Kylie Scott, which I devoured (pun intended).

Best New Food I Tried: Poke Bowls are LIFE! And Korean BBQ is AMAZING!

Best Movie:
Video: “Thor Ragnarok.” It isn’t just Chris Hemsworth. Okay, it’s mostly Chris Hemsworth but because he’s not only hot, he’s hilarious. Not to mention a very well placed Led Zepplin tune.

In Theaters (Tie): “Crazy Rich Asians.” Proof positive Hollywood needs to bring back the rom com. And “A Simple Favor.” Funny. Creepy. And Blake Lively’s wardrobe.

Best Instagram Account Followed: CatLoversClub. Follow this. You’ll laugh yourself sick and “aw” yourself silly. (By the by, my most heartfelt condolences to the kitty and girlie momma behind “bailey_no_ordinary_cat," I feel your pain, sister, boy do I feel your pain.)

Best Activity: Organizing my house. Highlight: My door-hanging gift wrap organizer. I show it to guests, it’s that awesome.

Best Trip: (tie) Sonoma in September with D, M and E (the male one), and NYC in December with L, MJ and J. I’d live in Sonoma, no joke, and not just because of the wine. And Christmas in New York is utterly magical.

Best New Restaurant I Tried: Taco Chello in downtown Phoenix. Two words: fresh tortillas. Two more words: fresh chicharrones. Last words: I usually go here with one or both of my nieces (which is probably why I love it most of all).

Best Netflix Show (tie): “To All the Boys I Loved Before.” Again, the world needs more rom coms. Including (and maybe especially) teen ones. And “Dumplin’,” because it’s funny, it’s sweet, it’s sad, I love Dolly, my heart belongs to drag queens and any story that leads you to accepting you is a story I adore.

Best TV Moment: Opening Ceremonies at the Winter Olympics. DRONES!

Firsts: Outside of going to Sonoma, Burbank, Cleveland (and The Rock ‘n’ Roll Hall of Fame!!!!), Melbourne, Australia, and Hawaii (and a luau)—and I’ve never been to any of these places (Cleveland, get a grilled cheese, Burbank has the best pizza I’ve ever tasted)—I also took my first cruise. I found I’m not a cruise person, but that’s okay, I did it. And anyway, I saw the hottest real-life guy of the year on that cruise so just that made it worth it. And fortunately, I had a lot of good company too, so even if I’m not a cruise person, it was still awesome.

I also had my first three photo shoots, one for a catalogue and two for magazines. One was even in a loft in New York City. I never thought I’d do that, be a model for a day, changing clothes and being styled. It is oddly hard work, and I loved every minute of it.

Which brings me to another awesome part of a year in review. After you look back and take stock, you can see what you need more of.

I need more firsts.

So while many pick a word for their year to aspire to, I’ve got three for 2019. I’m extending this year’s “YOLO” and just accepting that YOLO is the way I want to live my life. I’m adding “balance.” And last and maybe most importantly there’s…

DARE!

In 2019 I’m going to dare. Dare to do new things. Dare to say yes as often as I can. Dare to fill my life fuller and make it even richer. Dare to learn more about myself. Just dare to go where Kit has not gone before.

Hope you had a full 2018…

And more, I hope you’re aspiring to make an amazing 2019!
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Published on December 10, 2018 06:57 Tags: kristen-ashley
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message 1: by Jill (new)

Jill Bloor thank you for this blog. After reading it, I realize I'm in a rut and need to some much-overdo soul searching. I turned 60 this past October and realize that I'm depressed over that number and can't seem to figure out how to get over it. I am going to commit over the holidays, while I'm relaxing to do this work.
KA, you are an inspiration to me. take care, all the best to you in 2019!!!! Rock on


message 2: by Diane (new)

Diane Wilson Loved your blog and, of course, your books.
You had a great year and one can never be too organized.
Best to you in 19


message 3: by Viviana (new)

Viviana Thank you for sharing and Rock On!


message 4: by Necie (new)

Necie You are inspirational as ALWAYS... Thank you for being you.

ROCK ON 4EVER


message 5: by Melissa (new)

Melissa Bedford I loved every word of this! 😍 Thank you so much for sharing!


message 6: by Chewie (last edited Dec 12, 2018 02:21PM) (new)

Chewie I love that you still have so many 1st! Your attitude is always delightful & real. Thank you for being you. Keep rejuvenating yourself and writing what comes to you. As I try to DARE too, I will keep supporting your work. Thank you! Merry Christmas <3


message 7: by Kristen (new)

Kristen Smith You’re the shit, I just love you 😭


message 8: by J.J. (new)

J.J. Lair Loved reading about your year. Plus a few movie and book recommendations to boot. I hope your 2019 is just as exciting.


message 9: by Lonnita (new)

Lonnita I am so thrilled to know of another planner babe who loves the stickers. I also write everything down. Also thrilled that some of your first and favs were also mine - Hawaii (our 1st trip this year also) was amazing & my loves can't wait to go back, A Simple Favor (you gotta see it folks), Crazy Rich Asian, To All The Boys I've Loved, and Thor Ragnorok - I've seen them multiple times cause there were so good.
I regularly ask my husband to move us to the Bay area just so I can be near wine country, but alas I'm in Indpls; so again I'm with you about Sonoma. Your post was a delight and an inspiration, happy adventures in 2019.


message 10: by Reinette (new)

Reinette Jill wrote: "thank you for this blog. After reading it, I realize I'm in a rut and need to some much-overdo soul searching. I turned 60 this past October and realize that I'm depressed over that number and can'..."

Hey Jill, don’t feel depressed about turning 60. I turned 60 too. Funnily in October as well! On the 28th. I’m very modern and advanced, because I am already at 6.0, in reference to the internet 2.0. I am a very advanced model and my kids are so blessed to have me. :)
Wishing you a merry festive season and a peaceful New Year from Paris.


message 11: by Mica (new)

Mica I'm so sorry to impose by writing this message in your blog but you didn't have the "Ask the Author" option on your page. Is there any chance of more books in the Fantasyland series?I've read all the books twice and it's one of my favorite series'.


message 12: by Darlene (new)

Darlene Holsonback I loved reading your blog. It has inspired me to dare myself. I turn 55 in Feb, and I have always been the sensible one, the one you can count on, (not that those are bad qualities), but now that I have an empty nest, I can dare to be who I want to grow up to be.....
Thanks so much for the inspiration!!


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