Choosing Between Two Guys in 6 Easy Steps
If you’re reading this post today, I take my hat off to you. You have an interesting dilemma. You have two men who want to spend time with you – two men who may even love you. You’re faced with an intriguing problem – how to choose between two men.
Chances are, your relationships with these two guys are somewhat different. With one, there is probably a sense of comfort – perhaps normal. He’s always there for you and he makes you feel safe. The problem with this guy might be that there’s no heat.
Enter guy number two. The second guy, who is probably the second one to enter your life, provides the heat you feel is missing with guy number one. You love being with him. It’s exciting and fresh but, when push comes to shove, you don’t feel that sense of safety. Being with him doesn’t feel like home.
I know all I’ve done so far is confirm your problem so now, it’s time to learn how to choose between two men.
Step 1 | Cover the Basics when Choosing your Man
These questions will help you gain clarity:
Which guy is ready for your definition of a commitment?
Do your friends like him? Which more?
Does your family like him? Which more?
Does he respect you? Which one more?
How does each guy handle arguments?
Does your dog like him?
Have you uncovered any vices?
Do his friends think highly of each?
Do your morals and beliefs align for the most part?
Will politics be an issue with either? Religion?
Take away the sex – which would you prefer to be with?
Who has the better car and makes more money (Haha…shallow but why not throw it in [image error]
