thoughts on penn state

[image error]


First, let's get the language straight. The very last thing that these brave boys and men need is a nation referring to them as victims. They are heroes and survivors. Words matter. 


Second, I'm not sure that any of us really know what happened and how it happened. But based on my research, I do know this: 


When the culture of an organization mandates that it is more important to protect the reputation of a system and those in power than it is to protect the basic human dignity of individuals, you can be certain that shame is systemic, money drives ethics, and accountability is dead. This is true in corporations, nonprofits, universities, governments, churches, schools, families, and sports programs. If you think back on any major scandal fueled by cover-ups, you'll see this pattern. 


In an organizational culture where respect and the dignity of individuals are held as the highest values, shame and blame don't work as management styles. There is no leading by fear. Empathy is a valued asset, accountability is an expectation rather than an exception, and the primal human need for belonging is not used as leverage and social control.


We can't control the behavior of individuals; however, we can cultivate organizational cultures where behaviors are not tolerated and people are held accountable for protecting what matters most: human beings. 

2 likes ·   •  1 comment  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on November 14, 2011 16:18
Comments Showing 1-1 of 1 (1 new)    post a comment »
dateUp arrow    newest »

message 1: by Stephanie (new)

Stephanie I was reading something about views of imperfections in your relationship as gifts; they are the challenges which spur you to grow and mature.

That led me back to thinking about your book. The fact is, that when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable with other people, it typically strengthens our relationship with them. I disagree with it.
http://blogs.psychcentral.com/always-...


back to top